Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
male friends of hers who I heard talking sh1t about her and basically she said I was stirring sh1t and went off at me.
The bolded part is the core of your disagreement, because male-female friendship does not exist. Both men and women often like to pretend that it does. Men are using the lie to try to get laid, and women are just delusional about it. I guess it's flattering.
Never allow the concept of male-female friendship to exist in any relationship of yours. I refer to every guy in my gf's life that she's not related to as "that guy who wants to fvck you." Because it's true! I don't get mad, pissy, or jealous about it; I just state it matter-of-factly. I'm not going to pretend that something so obvious does not exist.
You were trying to destroy the m/f friendship frame by telling her what these guys said, but it was far too late, because you had already allowed that frame to be established. If the other guys were seen as just typical guys trying to fvck her, then it would not have mattered what they said when she wasn't around, and this argument never would have happened.
The bolded part is the core of your disagreement, because male-female friendship does not exist. Both men and women often like to pretend that it does. Men are using the lie to try to get laid, and women are just delusional about it. I guess it's flattering.
Never allow the concept of male-female friendship to exist in any relationship of yours. I refer to every guy in my gf's life that she's not related to as "that guy who wants to fvck you." Because it's true! I don't get mad, pissy, or jealous about it; I just state it matter-of-factly. I'm not going to pretend that something so obvious does not exist.
You were trying to destroy the m/f friendship frame by telling her what these guys said, but it was far too late, because you had already allowed that frame to be established. If the other guys were seen as just typical guys trying to fvck her, then it would not have mattered what they said when she wasn't around, and this argument never would have happened.