"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
2 years and nothing...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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If anything, it sounds like over time she's put your ba11s in a vice, and you were dumb enough to let her. She's giving you a 5hit test, practicing her control over you to see if you give in.
There's nothing you can say. You can't make a woman happy 100% of the time. Sounds to me like you've spoiled the 5hit out of her, she got used to it, and now she makes demands of you. The more you try to keep your woman happy, the more difficult it's going to be to please her. It's a never ending climb up a ladder. If you focussed on making yourself happy instead of her, you'd be much better off.
Now, for your most recent post...
Simple. She doesn't have any feelings for you. You've become another toss-away typical borefriend. Your relationship has come to an end. Prepare to pay her child support. How old is the kid? Are you sure it's yours?