"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 year anniversary Thread.....Advice inside !

Wiesman44

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Well, its pretty my much 2 yr anniversary here at this site. Started viewing the site in June-ish, but didnt register til August 2004.

Definitely made some amazing progress since then. Through my experiences, i've found out something critical to the process of becoming a DJ.

My 1 year anniversary can be found here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=82862&highlight=laid


My game is just about as tight as its going to get up until the seduction phase. The seduction phase is DEFINITELY where I could use some work, but thats really the least of my worries.

This is what I've learned

Building an extensive social network is by FAR the most important thing I did, and you should also. I've always hated clubs, never liked dancing. Yet, I heard that you should PU in clubs, because it has the greatest selection. Here's what i think of them:

1) Having to get through ***** shields is lame, and I dont wanna have to master every section of Mystery Method
2) Many girls have attitudes and are sick of being hit on by ****loads of guys, so they're not as responsive. I can work around it but the sh#t I have to do in order to do that is ridiculous in itself.
3) Too damn loud, don't wanna dance b/c i think its lame.

So what have I used clubs for ? Easy, NETWORKING. I'm not going to explain how I network, unless you all want me to, but I've been VERY successful in using clubs as networking devices. Make friends w/ these people at the clubs, hook up w/ their friends when u meet them at various other functions outside the clubs when the ***** shields are low. 10x easier to do.

I think a lot of guys should look into the idea that you should use clubs as a networking device instead of a PU venue unless you're solely doing it for the ONS.

So here's what I recommend. Work on your inner game, work on your PUA. Make sure your game decent, doesn't have to be perfected, but adequate.

Then I want you all to network like motherf8kers. Purpose is to basically get your name out and to know as MANY people as possible.

Just like in the sales world (which I'm about to go into.....any of u need financial advice, I'm you man) the more you you network, the more successful you will be. I think this goes hand in hand.

The more people you know, the more women you will get to know under favorable circumstances rather than unfavorable ones like at clubs where there's high ***** shields.

If you all want more info on how to network in other venues, I've created this thread a while ago:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=97442&highlight=friends

If you guys have any questions, feel free.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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gotta bump your own advice thread:p

Great advice man, so true.

WHich came first? The social circle, or the game?
 
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