"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2 year anniversary Thread.....Advice inside !

Wiesman44

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Well, its pretty my much 2 yr anniversary here at this site. Started viewing the site in June-ish, but didnt register til August 2004.

Definitely made some amazing progress since then. Through my experiences, i've found out something critical to the process of becoming a DJ.

My 1 year anniversary can be found here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=82862&highlight=laid


My game is just about as tight as its going to get up until the seduction phase. The seduction phase is DEFINITELY where I could use some work, but thats really the least of my worries.

This is what I've learned

Building an extensive social network is by FAR the most important thing I did, and you should also. I've always hated clubs, never liked dancing. Yet, I heard that you should PU in clubs, because it has the greatest selection. Here's what i think of them:

1) Having to get through ***** shields is lame, and I dont wanna have to master every section of Mystery Method
2) Many girls have attitudes and are sick of being hit on by ****loads of guys, so they're not as responsive. I can work around it but the sh#t I have to do in order to do that is ridiculous in itself.
3) Too damn loud, don't wanna dance b/c i think its lame.

So what have I used clubs for ? Easy, NETWORKING. I'm not going to explain how I network, unless you all want me to, but I've been VERY successful in using clubs as networking devices. Make friends w/ these people at the clubs, hook up w/ their friends when u meet them at various other functions outside the clubs when the ***** shields are low. 10x easier to do.

I think a lot of guys should look into the idea that you should use clubs as a networking device instead of a PU venue unless you're solely doing it for the ONS.

So here's what I recommend. Work on your inner game, work on your PUA. Make sure your game decent, doesn't have to be perfected, but adequate.

Then I want you all to network like motherf8kers. Purpose is to basically get your name out and to know as MANY people as possible.

Just like in the sales world (which I'm about to go into.....any of u need financial advice, I'm you man) the more you you network, the more successful you will be. I think this goes hand in hand.

The more people you know, the more women you will get to know under favorable circumstances rather than unfavorable ones like at clubs where there's high ***** shields.

If you all want more info on how to network in other venues, I've created this thread a while ago:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=97442&highlight=friends

If you guys have any questions, feel free.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gotta bump your own advice thread:p

Great advice man, so true.

WHich came first? The social circle, or the game?
 
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