"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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2 very useful tips on motivation.. from me to you

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1. Imagine having Jessica Alba in your bedroom for 20 minutes? And then she would just dissapear after that. Just like *poof*. Like a fycking genie :)

What would you do to her for these 20 minutes if she wanted to fyck? I don't think you would spend time talking about your friend's big muscles. Noooo. You would fyck the living **** out of her.

So.. what does this have to do with you hitting a punch bag or running HIIT?

You just give it to the damn punchbag for 2 or 3 minutes. Imagine that it's Jessica Alba you are giving it to, and then after 2 minutes, she dissapears. Your chance is then over to fyck her. So hit the damn bag and stop feeling sorry for your bytch ass.

2. As you just read it. "Stop feeling sorry about yourself"
READ IT AGAIN AND AGAIN, then say it to yourself when you're feeling that you wanna give up.

Peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You lost me through the humping-of-the-punching-bag bit... but I agree with the rest. :p

When I got started, I found that educating myself about nutrition and fitness made it easier for me to really push myself. I felt that I was more competent, and thus it was easier for me to MAKE time to go to the gym. Well, not make it, but utilize it. Most people have the time they just make excuses for not going. Basically, no one likes doing things they aren't good at (generally) so equipping yourself with knowledge that can make you better is only going to increase your confidence and help you pump that iron more often. Worked for me anyway.
 

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I think that would just make me masturbate and fall asleep. I always prefer to think about people that I want to smash.
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
1. Imagine having Jessica Alba in your bedroom for 20 minutes? And then she would just dissapear after that. Just like *poof*. Like a fycking genie :)

What would you do to her for these 20 minutes if she wanted to fyck? I don't think you would spend time talking about your friend's big muscles. Noooo. You would fyck the living **** out of her.

So.. what does this have to do with you hitting a punch bag or running HIIT?

You just give it to the damn punchbag for 2 or 3 minutes. Imagine that it's Jessica Alba you are giving it to, and then after 2 minutes, she dissapears. Your chance is then over to fyck her. So hit the damn bag and stop feeling sorry for your bytch ass.

2. As you just read it. "Stop feeling sorry about yourself"
READ IT AGAIN AND AGAIN, then say it to yourself when you're feeling that you wanna give up.

Peace
Brilliant.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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