Basically there's a good kind of ass-hole and a bad kind of ass-hole. Both attract women, but only one of them is truly successful with women.
The good kind of ass hole is someone who has calculated ****iness and overconfidence and playfulness and although they are usually indifferent, they care when it really counts. To summarize, this guy is like the villain in the movie that everyone roots for. He's the guy who will speak his mind no matter what the situation is and even though it might get on people's nerves or people will disagree with him, he doesn't care. Then when there comes a time people need someone to step up for them and be the voice/leader this is the guy everyone looks at first.
The bad kind of ass hole is someone who is overly sensitive and insecure about themsleves and tries to overcompensate by being rude and stand-offish thinking that they are attracting girls and being alpha. Although they will attract some girls, this guy is not a true DJ and will always get overmatched by the good kind of ass hole. This is the guy that walks around like he has a chip on his shoulder with something to prove and will disagree with people just for the sake of trying to get his opinion across and make people think he's a "jerk".
If you're going to be an ass-hole, be the good kind.
The good kind of ass hole is someone who has calculated ****iness and overconfidence and playfulness and although they are usually indifferent, they care when it really counts. To summarize, this guy is like the villain in the movie that everyone roots for. He's the guy who will speak his mind no matter what the situation is and even though it might get on people's nerves or people will disagree with him, he doesn't care. Then when there comes a time people need someone to step up for them and be the voice/leader this is the guy everyone looks at first.
The bad kind of ass hole is someone who is overly sensitive and insecure about themsleves and tries to overcompensate by being rude and stand-offish thinking that they are attracting girls and being alpha. Although they will attract some girls, this guy is not a true DJ and will always get overmatched by the good kind of ass hole. This is the guy that walks around like he has a chip on his shoulder with something to prove and will disagree with people just for the sake of trying to get his opinion across and make people think he's a "jerk".
If you're going to be an ass-hole, be the good kind.