"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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2 Things & The One They Left Out: ****y/Funny/Sexual

Young Juan

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In my humble opinion, the thing that most men miss is the sexual part. Some guys think that you can't be sexual with some ladies, mainly the shy/intelligent/good girl type ladies. Unless you're at work or some other place you really like going to and risk getting banned from for dumb sh!t, there's a way to be sexual.

My general rule is, the more intelligent the girl is, the more I use innuendo, double entendres, "That's what SHE said!", and other rhetorical devices that put/keep her mind on sex while teasing the intellectual side as well and making her laugh and have a good time while showing confidence. Once I get her horny and thinking about sex, it's only a matter of time before the sex with me thoughts begin rolling through her head. If not that, it at least gets her open for kino and/or a kiss test. As long as I'm ****y (confident) and making her laugh (funny) and keeping it sexual (mmmm, he's probably experienced in the sack) I've gotten both makeouts and standing/sitting lapdances in the club within the first 15-30 minutes of meeting a girl at the club, and likely most of my f-closes in one way or another.

When I'm off my sh!ts, I tend to get all interviewy and get boring, even in my own opinion. If I'm lucky, I'll remember too things, one which is inspired by The Book of Pook.

1). Intellectual isn't Sexual - This means that showing off your brain power and vocab doesn't turn people on. I mean, think about it. Did you pop a boner when you read the 48 Laws of Power? So why would discussing fiscal policy and economics make her pvssy wet?

2) Perfect is Predictable - Pook said that "Perfect is Boring." I build on that and take it a step forward saying Perfect is Predictable. It's the different deviations and variations of nature that make the world such a diverse place and give rare characteristics increased value. Also, the times you fvck up will usually become funny "remember when..." lmao moments in the future. Lastly, once you become more comfortable and begin to generally disregard making mistakes and have more fun, you'll enjoy yourself more often as it becomes more about you having a good time at the time. This way, even if you go home with no tail. You shouldn't really even be that mad because you had a damn good time nonetheless.

Did it this past weekend as well. Field tested, field proved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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