2 Questions (gal with bf)

[Jizz]

Right 1st question

1) How do you make a gal see you as a back up kind of thing if and when her break up with her bf happens but without going into the just friends stage?

2nd question

this gal and i have been texting she has a bf, but weve been texting, nothing too flirty but her bf saw a message i text her and got a lil mad and apparently hasnt spoke to her for the rest of the evening about how he feels but she knows he thinks she was cheating on him, which isnt the case and she certainly hasnt done anything wrong!

shes a lil upset about it, but said "i havent done anything wrong so it doesnt matter"

so i said "well im sure everything will be cool" and she replied "yeh i hope so"

i dont really have a question here just looking for some advice actually, how to stay away from the just friends zone and how to make her see me as a back up but not a **** who may of broke her and her bf up lol

cheers

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by Jizz
Right 1st question

1) How do you make a gal see you as a back up kind of thing if and when her break up with her bf happens but without going into the just friends stage?

You're a DJ; you don't want to be second best or the rebound guy.

Re-think your attitude here.

 

[flexion_]

2nd best doesn't cut it.

Keep texting her at your own LJBF demise.

If you want to appear attractive to her when she eventually becomes single then get busy with other girls.