"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 Problems, 1 Thread

SyncBoss

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Idk what's up, but I live in a town with little to no chicks and no social places where kids my age hang out. I moved here a few months ago, and last week I asked a few kids if they knew anything interesting to do here, they all said no. My only way of meeting girls would be in the town I go to school in (but it is very hard to get those social places during break. Break starts tomorrow btw.)
What do I do? The other town is an hour away, and it would be difficult getting my parents to let me go out there.

2nd problem
Let me clear this right now! I do not have One-Itis so don't even mention it.
There is this girl (I know typical one-Itis starter sentence) who I met when I was doing my excercises for DJ BootCamp, but I never got her number. The only way I can contact her is through instagram (but the last thing I want to do is be that creep who tries to get her number on one of her pictures), or I can try to find her in school tomorrow (tomorrow is the last day of school). I doubt she will be coming but I will still try to find her. what do I do about getting this girl's # w/ my limited resources?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RiceandChicken

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Gee man you're in a tough patch I'll tell you that. As far as getting this girl number without being creepy about or anything, best thing to do is find her somehow and strike up a short quick Convo then ask for her number at the end. Not really much else you can do man as far as I know.
 

Blistex

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In regards to your first problem, I think your best place at interacting with women your age will be at school. Since you are on break right now, consider this a time for you to do plenty of learning and practice your social skills on people around you (they don't have to be your age or even women for that matter).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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