Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SyncBoss

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Idk what's up, but I live in a town with little to no chicks and no social places where kids my age hang out. I moved here a few months ago, and last week I asked a few kids if they knew anything interesting to do here, they all said no. My only way of meeting girls would be in the town I go to school in (but it is very hard to get those social places during break. Break starts tomorrow btw.)
What do I do? The other town is an hour away, and it would be difficult getting my parents to let me go out there.

2nd problem
Let me clear this right now! I do not have One-Itis so don't even mention it.
There is this girl (I know typical one-Itis starter sentence) who I met when I was doing my excercises for DJ BootCamp, but I never got her number. The only way I can contact her is through instagram (but the last thing I want to do is be that creep who tries to get her number on one of her pictures), or I can try to find her in school tomorrow (tomorrow is the last day of school). I doubt she will be coming but I will still try to find her. what do I do about getting this girl's # w/ my limited resources?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gee man you're in a tough patch I'll tell you that. As far as getting this girl number without being creepy about or anything, best thing to do is find her somehow and strike up a short quick Convo then ask for her number at the end. Not really much else you can do man as far as I know.
 
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In regards to your first problem, I think your best place at interacting with women your age will be at school. Since you are on break right now, consider this a time for you to do plenty of learning and practice your social skills on people around you (they don't have to be your age or even women for that matter).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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