"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 months later, and the sex is already dying

vlf445

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Even though its only been two months, everything in bed seems to have changed already. I can still get her to orgasm every time, but she is never nearly as wet as she used to be earlier in the relationship, making everything else that much harder. Is this an early sign of waning attraction? or maybe im overthinking or something...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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vlf445 said:
Even though its only been two months, everything in bed seems to have changed already. I can still get her to orgasm every time, but she is never nearly as wet as she used to be earlier in the relationship, making everything else that much harder. Is this an early sign of waning attraction? or maybe im overthinking or something...
Be less available to build anticipation.

She wants to want and not be sure you're going automatically going to have sex with her.

Start resisting more and keep her off balance about what's going to happen ie: "is he going to tap my ass tonight or call it an early night because he has some vague/mysterious stuff he wants to go do".

She'll love you for this. Really, she'll biatch a bit but it's really going to make her more attracted to you and hot.
 

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Stop asking for it, Keep your hands to yourself. Let her initiate it!
 

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Modern women get bored very fast no matter what you do or how great you are.. only solution is to let her be the ho she wants to be and only see her occasionally... She will Fing other and so will you but that is the nature of the relationship beast...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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