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[MrWhite]

Hey guys, first post here and have been surfing here for quite some time here and found a ton of useful information.

Cutting to the chase, I've been seeing a girl now for about a couple months now, hit it off pretty well. Had the don Juan in me for at least a month and a half and got good results. Noticeable mistakes I've made (bad habits from previous relationships) are offering to pay for everything and getting her a couple gifts. Pretty much throwing the power in her hands. She's become lax and seems to become less interested as of late. I also tend to give myself away too quick and I know that loses their curiosity and intrigue. So I'm at this point now where she ain't texting or making any plans anymore.

Is it too far now to mend these mistakes I've made?

Mind you I've started to lose interest myself through the process of knowing the mistakes I've done, sounds odd but not sure if anyone else had been through this experience.

Thanks for any input.

 

[spiegel549]

Hey guys, first post here and have been surfing here for quite some time here and found a ton of useful information.

Cutting to the chase, I've been seeing a girl now for about a couple months now, hit it off pretty well. Had the don Juan in me for at least a month and a half and got good results. Noticeable mistakes I've made (bad habits from previous relationships) are offering to pay for everything and getting her a couple gifts. Pretty much throwing the power in her hands. She's become lax and seems to become less interested as of late. I also tend to give myself away too quick and I know that loses their curiosity and intrigue. So I'm at this point now where she ain't texting or making any plans anymore.

Is it too far now to mend these mistakes I've made?

Mind you I've started to lose interest myself through the process of knowing the mistakes I've done, sounds odd but not sure if anyone else had been through this experience.

Thanks for any input.

Bro just stop making the mistakes. Seems like you realize what you are doing thats making her distance her self...so STOP doing them. Start becoming "busy" don't contact her as often, don't be so fast to answer the phone. If its not completely lost you can try and regain her interest back.

I have been through it so many times, start off strong like an Alpha and thats what they LOVE and then when you "have" the girl you start to back down, let things slide more etc.

You gotta RE-ALPHA it back up man! Start running the show again, take control, STOP buying her gifts, STOP complementing her to death and start acting like you did the first month.

DO IT BRO!!!

 

[MrWhite]

Thanks guys for the feedback, helps a ton.

 

[Slickster]

Next time you are with her, flirt with another girl right in front of her. Cashier, waitress, random chick, whatev.....

Make no apologies if she reacts poorly. Just laugh and tell her to quit being so serious and have some fun.