"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Today I was called my two different girls. Girl A is about a 7 or so, who I've known for about a half a yr, but she's moving this summer so I won't see her next yr. Girl B I'm not really sure. I knew her in 3rd grade, and just talked to her about 2 months ago for the first time since then. I had MAJOR one-itis (yes even in 3rd grade). Well both of them called me today. I didn't hear either of their calls. Girl A called but didn't leave a message. Girl B called and did leave a message asking how things were going and to call her tomorrow (her mom was sleeping so I couldnt wake her tonight....). I'm closer with Girl A, and like her more, but since she's moving I dunno if I should call her back, or when to call her. (Question 1: Should I call her back, and if so, when?) I use to be real close with Girl B, but I really doubt there's much connection, considering she lives fairly far away, and probably wouldn't be able to talk with her in person anyway. (Question 2: Is there even reason to call her back? Should I wait a couple days or call tomorrow? It is summer and school's out now, so there's really not much to do)

Thanks in advance for your help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have girl A call you back, pretend she never called you, and you said that she is moving over the summer, so i say spend time with her if you really like her, just don't seem like you are too much into her. Like you said, girl B is far, so what you can do is you can keep up conversation with her, taht way if she ever comes by where you are, you can have a quick fvck session. And yes, you should wait a few days to call back girl B. Not sure what there is to do in Texas, but I'm sure you can go out and do something, camping with friends is always chill...
 

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Girl B called me today and I picked up. We talked for close to 30 min just about our lives and stuff (just cuz we haven't seen each other in years). She asked if I could go to some skatepark tomorrow, but I just said no. But I told her I'm gettin together with some friends on Sat and she can come (I really am). Honestly, I probly could get together with her and make out within 3 min of seeing her, but I dun really want that (at least not with her).

I'm thinkin of callin up Girl A and seein if she wants to meet up. But I dunno.

Since she's moving, shoudl I just forget about her? And Girl B said she's going to call me and wake me up tomorrow....:nervous: Should I just ignore her calls?
 

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you see whats going on here? girl B is giving u more attention which is in return pushing u away, your giving girl A more attention pushing her more away from u, if i were you id just take girl B while u still can and if things happen with girl A so be it
 

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Actually, I haven't given Girl A any attention. I havent seen her since the last day of school, or talked to her. She tried callin me though, but I didn't answer.
And Girl B...she's just really not my type at all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is girl A gonna be at this meeting of friends? Because if she is, then girl B can sort of make her jealous (or rip her throat out, who knows, women are insane). I mean, lets say girl B starts hangin around you, I'm thinkin it'll sort of make girl A notice you and stuff like that
 

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I know, how about other women? :eek:
 

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I was thinkin about having Girl A come, but I don't really know.

And there's already other girls. I'm havin about 4 or 5 girls come meet up tomorrow, and 1 other guy, that way it won't just seem like I'm gay or something.
 

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What's wrong with both?

Call em up, get things happening. They obviously want some and if you're not going to supply the demand, someone else will.
 
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