"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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2 girls; one I like, one everyone else does

ThunderMaverick

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Are we?




Listen, as I said before, every action you make has a price. And what you do now determines YOU in the future.

And I understand what you're saying PR, maybe I should be less dramatic? Maybe so, but I just don't let my irresponsibilities slide and take people for granted, that's all...or at least I make a strong effort not to. I would hate for someone to do me dirty, young or old.

This world is cruel.
But that dosen't mean that I have to be.

Rex, it's up to you. Either way you go be prepared to live in the future what you do now. You now have a broader idea of the situation than you previously had before.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, for various reasons I've decided to leave the 7.5 alone.

In addition, me and gf worked out our little 'argument'

Here's the deal pretty much, me and my girl have a damn good relationship. Honestly, we're like one of those disgusting couples you see all in love. (It doesn't hurt that she looks good either)

Problem is, me and my roommate have this dynamic partnership where getting girls is easy. no sensible guy can pass some of these things up especially when he only has sex w/ his gf about twice a week

I've honestly decided not to post some recent things as when I read them I see how i could be looked at as an ***hole.

BUT, like I said, she's one of a kind and I'm not intending on letting her go so I'm at a stalemate.
 

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Hmmm I don't know Rex, you might be going soft on me here...No seriously if you think she's "the one" then you wouldn't have thoughts of illrepute. If she's really worth all that then you might want to have to hang up your holster for a while Mr. Bond.

Not to say your skills won't be called upon in the future, but for right now a vacation from the game might be called for. When I was your age I couldn't phathom being with just one girl and my g/f at that time was hot stuff. But she was also a b*tch... *sigh* Kaitlyn I miss ya. But everybody knew she was a hot b*tch so doing her wrong was almost a requirement for me. She did some fowl sh*t to some people and I kind of balanced that out cause I had her whipped.

I didn't have too much to loose, so gambling for me wasn't that big of a deal. Looking back on it, only one of the several relationships I saw develop in my first two years of college ever made it. Not saying your relationship will fail, but the chances aren't good. But you should give it a run anyway, you might learn something while being with her and use it in the future, even if it doesn't last.

Choice is still yours Rex, not saying you can't gamble but you've got big chips there. Make sure whatever decisons you make from here, end you a winner.
 
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