"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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2 girls: need help to pick the right one

daniel_6_mile_man

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I’ve never asked a girl out before…but I know that I need to start and I know I have a decent chance with these two girls, but I don’t know which one is best for me…so please help!!!

1= I talk with this girl on the phone, messenger, or see her almost everyday…..most recently we’ve gone to open gym together and lifted weights….i’d bike to her house and back to the gym with her…I live 2 minutes from the gym on bike and she lives 6 miles away…so I bike 12 miles out of my way and get up earlier to go to her house…I sum times find it hard to talk with her in person…….cause I just stutter n choke sum times…..we both laugh a lot together and have a good time normally…we’ve also gone to the beach together n played basketball n volleyball…

2= I see her 5 days a week normally at open gym…she lifts sum weights and then we go run together……then we stretch and do other exercises and more lifting together…we’ve talked about stuff like college, dating, and summer stuff…I normally talk to her well……we do all the same sports together for our school so I c her in those…

so what do u think I should do??? Thanks!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1= kind of lazy, but does sports.........very funny...not really a serious person....very dramatic....

2= works hard at sports.....more serious..........fun to talk to...........not too dramatic from what ive seen...sees thigns as the way they are..more straightforeward..

and i'm a lil funny.....seriosu in sports.......dramatic too...........straightforeward
 

baddfishh40

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Why not both? Just ask them both out and if you get tired of one then dump her.
 

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Originally posted by baddfishh40
Why not both? Just ask them both out and if you get tired of one then dump her.
exactly
 

ice_cream

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Originally posted by baddfishh40
Why not both? Just ask them both out and if you get tired of one then dump her.
Or if you don't want to go out with 2 girls at once, you can ask out one of them and if it doesn't work out, then you could ask out the other one. But if the 2nd girl is more fun to talk to, then I'd probably pick her, makes conversation a bit easier I'd imagine/
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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