"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mpgu3305

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Ok I got 2 situations...

1st Girl: There is this girl in my College Notes class, she sits on the otherside of the room from me. I have noticed her looking at me and giving me these looks. We make eye contact all the time and I always give her a smile that makes her smile. The thing is I can't talk to her because our teacher is an ASS and won't let us get out of our seats. Whenever I see her walking in the hallway, she will look directly at me until I get close then she will look at the ground or away as I walk by.

How should I go about it with this girl?
The teacher doesn't care if we use cellphones, and she always has hers out. So I was thinking of writing on a piece of paper "Whats your number?" and holding it up with my cellphone,so I could text her during class.

2nd Girl: I don't really know this girl. She is friends with one of my friends and she keeps telling him that she thinks I look good and wants to get on. I see her around school, but I never really talk to her besides "hi" and small stuff. I know a few of her girlfriends and talk to them quite a bit. How should I go about pulling this girl?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mpgu3305

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Originally posted by strassgremlin
At least you don't have oneitis.
Haha...

...Oh believe me, I have plenty of other girls. I just can't figure out what to do with these 2.
 

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If you dont know what to do about these girls how do you know what to do with ANY girl? One of them straight up said she wants to get it on with you and you dont know what to do? Next time you see her you might just want to extend your conversation beyond "hi".
 

Mpgu3305

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Originally posted by SetzerSky
If you dont know what to do about these girls how do you know what to do with ANY girl? One of them straight up said she wants to get it on with you and you dont know what to do? Next time you see her you might just want to extend your conversation beyond "hi".
I have some Ideas, I want to see if I'm thinking the same as everyone else. The first situation is the one I am really working on. The 2nd one actually just happend today.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You know what to do... so why do you need advice from others.

For yourself, you are the best advisor. You know the situation, the girl, and you seem to know what your doing.

Do your thing. Not what others suggest, unless you are completly stumpted.
 

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and if you are completly stumped, listen up: this seems to depend on the kind of relationship you want. girl 1 seems to be a little more attainable and more of a nice girl. girl 2 seems to be a little more sensual. with girl one it would be more of a real relationship. while girl 2 would be more of a sexual thing. take your pick.
 

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Originally posted by chill
and if you are completly stumped, listen up: this seems to depend on the kind of relationship you want. girl 1 seems to be a little more attainable and more of a nice girl. girl 2 seems to be a little more sensual. with girl one it would be more of a real relationship. while girl 2 would be more of a sexual thing. take your pick.
Hahaha I'm young, sex is good. But on a scale of 1-10, girl 1 is a 9.25-9.5 and girl 2 is 8.5-9.0. So its win win, maybe I could have both?
 

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yeah man, you can do both, not gonna kill you
 

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If what you are looking for is support, than here it is.

:cheer: :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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