"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok I got 2 situations...

1st Girl: There is this girl in my College Notes class, she sits on the otherside of the room from me. I have noticed her looking at me and giving me these looks. We make eye contact all the time and I always give her a smile that makes her smile. The thing is I can't talk to her because our teacher is an ASS and won't let us get out of our seats. Whenever I see her walking in the hallway, she will look directly at me until I get close then she will look at the ground or away as I walk by.

How should I go about it with this girl?
The teacher doesn't care if we use cellphones, and she always has hers out. So I was thinking of writing on a piece of paper "Whats your number?" and holding it up with my cellphone,so I could text her during class.

2nd Girl: I don't really know this girl. She is friends with one of my friends and she keeps telling him that she thinks I look good and wants to get on. I see her around school, but I never really talk to her besides "hi" and small stuff. I know a few of her girlfriends and talk to them quite a bit. How should I go about pulling this girl?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by strassgremlin
At least you don't have oneitis.
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Haha...

...Oh believe me, I have plenty of other girls. I just can't figure out what to do with these 2.
 
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If you dont know what to do about these girls how do you know what to do with ANY girl? One of them straight up said she wants to get it on with you and you dont know what to do? Next time you see her you might just want to extend your conversation beyond "hi".
 
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Originally posted by SetzerSky
If you dont know what to do about these girls how do you know what to do with ANY girl? One of them straight up said she wants to get it on with you and you dont know what to do? Next time you see her you might just want to extend your conversation beyond "hi".
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I have some Ideas, I want to see if I'm thinking the same as everyone else. The first situation is the one I am really working on. The 2nd one actually just happend today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You know what to do... so why do you need advice from others.

For yourself, you are the best advisor. You know the situation, the girl, and you seem to know what your doing.

Do your thing. Not what others suggest, unless you are completly stumpted.
 
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and if you are completly stumped, listen up: this seems to depend on the kind of relationship you want. girl 1 seems to be a little more attainable and more of a nice girl. girl 2 seems to be a little more sensual. with girl one it would be more of a real relationship. while girl 2 would be more of a sexual thing. take your pick.
 
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Originally posted by chill
and if you are completly stumped, listen up: this seems to depend on the kind of relationship you want. girl 1 seems to be a little more attainable and more of a nice girl. girl 2 seems to be a little more sensual. with girl one it would be more of a real relationship. while girl 2 would be more of a sexual thing. take your pick.
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Hahaha I'm young, sex is good. But on a scale of 1-10, girl 1 is a 9.25-9.5 and girl 2 is 8.5-9.0. So its win win, maybe I could have both?
 
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yeah man, you can do both, not gonna kill you
 
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If what you are looking for is support, than here it is.

:cheer: :cheer:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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