"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 Gifts U Can Always Give A Chic

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I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

m
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sheesh newbies.......so much to learn
 

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COD said:
I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

m
How about these two things:

1. Jack

2. Shyt
 

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Nightwing said:
How about these two things:

1. Jack

2. Shyt
The guys with the most success with women are the guys that don't give women gifts. Ask any chick who dated a jerk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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COD said:
I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

m
Exactly!

Cracks me up how if this had been written in 'The Book of Pook', some of these newbies would be salivating and treating it as gospel. :crazy:

Women do react positively to gifts from men. Has nothing to do with "buying" them stuff and spending money. The gifts must be of high value, not price. Those two things will work wonders if done correctly. No cost to implement, very high value in return.

The jerk and prik gives her the gift of drama, unpredictability, and a whole other rush of emotions, and she reacts, because she herself likes to go through all the emotions, most of the time like an addiction. Wether she admits it or not, it is very likely that every woman will crave those emotions.

Some guys are good at giving them those emotions, even if he doesn't wrap 'em up in a box with a bow and say, "Hello sweetie, here is some drama, unpredictability, and other addicting emotions, just for you. Please like me in return." NO, you won't see them do that, they just do it.

Any chick who dated a jerk won't have a clue as to how to explain the attraction she feels. He's giving her the gifts of not acting like a wuss, keeping her on her toes, and higher value.
 
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