"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 Gifts U Can Always Give A Chic

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I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sheesh newbies.......so much to learn
 

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COD said:
I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

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How about these two things:

1. Jack

2. Shyt
 

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How about these two things:

1. Jack

2. Shyt
The guys with the most success with women are the guys that don't give women gifts. Ask any chick who dated a jerk.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD said:
I am an advocate of keeping your hard earned cash and spending the least amount of money when i begin dating. We are all aware of the downsides to buying women gifts to get their affection.

Here is 2 gifts that YOU CAN give a woman and reap real success...........

1) THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU: playing hard to get, not being readily available, being a little late for dates so she is wondering about you, never spending the night, ending phone calls first, rescheduling a date, etc

2) HUMOR-what ever she is into there's bound to be a YOUTUBE clip on the internet. Send it to her phone or her email address. Doctor a picture of her in photo-shop and send it back to her, send her a funny picture, give her a silly nic name, etc. This quantifies you big-time, speeds up the rapport, increases the attraction, sets the tone, etc.


They are free and are often over-looked as tools for attraction.:cheer:

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Exactly!

Cracks me up how if this had been written in 'The Book of Pook', some of these newbies would be salivating and treating it as gospel. :crazy:

Women do react positively to gifts from men. Has nothing to do with "buying" them stuff and spending money. The gifts must be of high value, not price. Those two things will work wonders if done correctly. No cost to implement, very high value in return.

The jerk and prik gives her the gift of drama, unpredictability, and a whole other rush of emotions, and she reacts, because she herself likes to go through all the emotions, most of the time like an addiction. Wether she admits it or not, it is very likely that every woman will crave those emotions.

Some guys are good at giving them those emotions, even if he doesn't wrap 'em up in a box with a bow and say, "Hello sweetie, here is some drama, unpredictability, and other addicting emotions, just for you. Please like me in return." NO, you won't see them do that, they just do it.

Any chick who dated a jerk won't have a clue as to how to explain the attraction she feels. He's giving her the gifts of not acting like a wuss, keeping her on her toes, and higher value.
 
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