2 Chicks-best friends-both want me!

[downfallofdisbelief]

Ok, dont tell me to read the damn bible on this one cause i'm pretty sure it doesn't have to do w/ my dj skills.

I recently got 2 HB 7.8+'s to become obsessed with me. There's just one slight problem-they are best friends. I would like to pursue but i dont know if i'd be jumping into something not worth my time.

Thanks

 

[seloifter]

it's not really whether it'll be "worth your time" or not....... it's whether you're willing to be "the guy" who tore apart two best friends from each other......

either let them work it out between each other (which will very likely not happen), find another girl, or face being..... "that guy" and you know the rest

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by seloifter

either let them work it out between each other (which will very likely not happen), find another girl, or face being..... "that guy" and you know the rest

You underestimate the power of attraction, my good friend (yes you are! )

I've done that most recently with my current girlfriend. I've liked her best friend for two years, and then asked out her best friend.

Worked out fine now she regrets it.

 

[seloifter]

How nice of you to call me a good friend . I'm not sure on what basis we became friends, but hey, I'm always glad to know a friendly face.

I'm not really sure by what your scenario was. The wording was a bit hard to follow (the "her" kept changing, wasn't sure who it was referring to sometimes)

but anyway, it is of my opinion that common attraction can be a devastating thing to two high school friends.

Perhaps it is YOU who underestimates the power of attraction. After all, two friends can pretend to come to an understanding (for example, one agrees to "let" the other have the guy) - the girl who ended up with nothing will feel some secret bitterness.... and the friendship is still hurt.

Then a few weeks later when the two break up, the friends will go see each other, try to become best pals; but it will never be the same. Actually, the only way they will have a decent convo is to talk about how "that guy" ruined their friendship and gab about that.

I've seen it from all sides of the spectrum (well, maybe almost all sides)... it's an ugly thing in HS

Besides, Sebastian, you seem to always have an exception to everything

 

[aBAzLLnA]

well, downfall(...) its seems that your in a damn good position! Heres what i think, why dont you just ask them both to have sex with you? They get what they want and so do you

But seriously, HS is a very cut throat place with enemies here and there, with high competition for the right mate, and last of all with damn confused girls.

Downfall, do what your first instinct tells you to do, if it tells you to ask out girl A, go for it, if it tells you to ask out girl B, go for it, if it tells you to drop both of them, go for it. Your first instinct, more often then not, is the right way to go.

Personally, I'd go with the hotter chick

~ivan

 

[unknowntim3]

i have this same problem... this girl im really intrested in, we hang out alot, but some times its 4 of us, my friend and her best friend, and her best friend is all over me... i dotn know what to do either, cause i know for a fact i could get her friend, but im not very intrested in her...

so yeah, situations, sweet