"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“You can fight battles you will loose, but you can’t win battles you don’t fight.”

*The audience understands this simple metaphor, but does not make them act, it only makes them think about inaction*.

All battles in your life consist really of two battles. The first battle is choosing to have the battle at all. The second battle contains the prize. You might loose the second battle but you will ALWAYS have a chance at the prize later. If you loose the first battle you never get the chance again, that’s it game over you’re done.

*Most of the audience listens this thinking someday I will chance it. But most will not.*

*Suddenly a hot chick walks by, one of the audience members walks down to her introduces him self, and talks to her for a minute then asks for the number but gets turned down.*

*The instructor calls to the man* “Why did you do that?” To which the man replied “After you make the jump, even if you don’t land on the other side, you can still grasp onto the wall below the edge and climb up."

“You are done here, leave now” *and the man did leave….but now ready to climb the wall, up...up to his prize.*

“This session is adjourned, if you go home and only think about this, come back to the next meeting.”
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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