#2 and confused

[Spade_1]

Well I've had a major case of oneitis for a girl that I've been interested for 2 years. She has no interest in me, and has interest for my best friend. He has no interest for her, but we're all friends. The thing is I'm not still trying for her, I'm trying to forget her and move on. The only problem is that when she's on good terms with my best friend she couldn't care less about me, but when she's on not-so friendly terms with him she comes straight to me. Not to talk about him, but I become #1 as soon as she's mad at him or they haven't talked in a while.

I hate being #2 and I don't even want her anymore, I just want her to stop comming to me as a backup. I want to send her the message in the nicest way possible cuz she is a friend and a good person. What should I do?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Ummm...find someone else...brilliant.

 

[Docs]

Push her away? Not that hard.

 

[Plec07]

When she comes to you, side-note her. By this I mean keep doing what you do when she's with your mate, but don't ignore her. Just don't prioritise her.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Forget about her. Don't talk to her anymore and don't hang out with her anymore. This could be a small challenge if you want to hang out with your friend but he is hanging out with her. So you will have to manuever around it.