"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 17-year olds killed in the Atlanta suburbs....

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I live in Atlanta as well. Roswell is one of the nicer areas. First time hearing this.
 

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Sounds like they both got capped in the head.

There is simply nothing good that happens between 12 pm and 5 am. Anywhere.
 

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....behind a Publix at 2-3 am in the morning a few nights ago.

http://www.ajc.com/news/news/crime-law/autopsies-planned-today-for-teens-found-dead-behin/nr8TW/

I live in Atlanta and that area is pretty nice out there. Theories? Drug deal gone bad seems the most likely culprit, but these two were supposedly pretty good students. What makes well-to-do suburbans do this? Or was it thugs out for some sort of revenge?

Kind of hard to watch the news these days.
The thugs you find in the ghetto have absolutely no business in suburban areas, unless it's drug related. Drugs being sold in richer areas is not uncommon and most people, like naive middle class high schoolers, don't exactly know what really goes on behind the drug trade.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The chief said cellphone records from various phones were crucial in identifying Hazelwood as the suspect. He also mentioned messaging apps on cellphones as being useful in the investigation.

They could have been meeting for a threesome.
 

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They could have been meeting for a threesome.
Sick, but true. I was just trying to actually touch girls and MAYBE get laid in HS. I wasn't anywhere near cool enough or experienced enough to pull off a threesome. Just weird to me.
 

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Killer was also an AFC.
http://www.myajc.com/news/news/local/suspect-in-roswell-shootings-this-kid-just-didnt-s/nr9nj/

In a post 17 weeks ago, he said, "Why the (expletive) should i live? Cant do (expletive) right. All i do is hurt everybody even the one i love more than my own life and i swore to never hurt. Im beyond (expletive). Theres no one left."

Other postings and photos contain messages about Hazelwood’s girlfriend. According to address records, it was this woman's family home that was searched Wednesday within hours of Hazelwood’s arrest, though Roswell police declined to say what type of evidence, if any, may have been found.

“I love you, as I have never loved another, Or ever will again” Hazelwood posted to go with a picture a bright blue rose. “I love you with all that I am, and all that I hope to be.”
 
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