Hmmm. I'm glad someone asked this, and I'm glad Iqqi responded.
My two cents: You can't ljbf them. once that happens, it's difficult to turn the corner.
Regrettably, I think the safer way is to not go for the number close until you know both girls a bit better. In that sense, I agree with Iqqi. The DJ way, however, does not care about "safe". He tries to get what he wants. If the lady can not share, the lady gets none.
Of primary importance is to assess their interest levels before you # close.
Example:
A similar situation occurred with me. Two girls, both cute, both stand up chicks, always ready to buy me a drink, just because I ask them to as a joke! (I return the favor, of course.)
Well, I found out recently that they're not old enough to be in the pub that I work at. The little vixens had been showing up before I start my shift.
So, they goof one weekend showing up late, and since Mr. ABC (alcohol beverage control) is standing right there, I card them
and determine that they're too young. I could tell that they were more upset that they couldn't joke and hang out with me during my slow times, so I just got both of their numbers. I dated one on Monday, one on Wednesday.
I swear, I felt Mormon. I took them to the same restaurant, and we played air hockey and pool. I got "further" with Wednesday than with Monday. I'm thinking it's because Monday had told Wednesday(not sure, but it's likely) what we had done.
Wednesday: Didn't you do the same thing with Monday?
Me: yes
Wednesday: Isn't that kind of weird?
Me: No, what better way for me to figure out which one of you I like best?
Wedneday: Well, that sucks. I can't compete with Monday. She's beautiful.
Me: It's not about looks, it's about fun. You're not fishing for a free compliment are you? Because right now, I'm kicking your butt in this game.
Wednesday: Yeah? <she scored! >
In my case, I'd been flirting with these two for a couple of weeks. I never got their number because they were there for me at work. No sense me spending my cash on them; they'll spend their own. Heck, in a lot of ways, I dated them both on their dime during the same nights.
