1st time i call

[oakraiderz2]

Every time i call up a girl for the first time i get nervous as one could imagine and somehow f*ck everything up. Sometimes i think its the tone of voice that reflects how nervous i am or i sound monotone. Ill have an idea of what to say but then ill get nervous and act like a retard. I figured after having done it a few times id be alright but i STILL get nervous. After the first time i called one girl, the next time i called she acted like she couldnt hear me then hung up. I cant really figure out what im doing thats SO wrong, but i dunno. How do yall handle the first call? What do you talk about? Im used to making out with a girl one night when we're drunk then calling sometime later with the ice being broken.

 

[bron anthony]

It's really not all that dificult in principle. You really shouldn't stay on the phone too long anyway, just long enough to set up a meeting between the two of you.

 

[Daral]

I found calling on the phone even easier than talking in person, because when you call on the phone you can take as long as you need to get mentally prepared beforehand. It might be a good idea, also, if you're nervous, to write down what you plan on saying that way you can focus your mind on how you're saying it rather than what you're going to say.