"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1st official hangout

dre007

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so this girl who I've been gaming IMs saying we shuld hang out this friday cause her friends want to meet me. this is gonna be the first official hangout were gonna have with her friends becuz the first 3 times I've just been to her house and only me and her were there, luckily no parents home = hardcore makeout sessions ;-) anyways, now that her HB friends are in the picture and r gunna be there, how shuld I act around them so they think ima decent guy and not a playa or anything. any tips are welcome...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NewspaperRalph

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keep the mystery. lean back and calm. talk to the friend 25-40%
and be yourself. doing what you've been doing until now. cuss she
brought her friend to show off how cool YOU are. so let them do most
of the talking.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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yeah, and i would also lay off the overly affectionate kissy stuff in front of them
 
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