"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1st Dumbells?

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I was thinking about getting some from walmart and was wondering how much they are and what size to start with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jonny football hero

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What range do they have? Go for lighter ones to build up muscle, then get some heavier ones, no point going for 20's straight away.
 

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They can be pretty expensive... I've seen them from $5 a-piece to $15 a-piece at different walmarts{different brands too}

If you can't carry them from the back of the store to the front holding them over your head there probably giong to be to heavy....

i'd recomend starting at 10-15 and using some 1 and 2 pound weights to gradually move up...

Thats my advice good luck
 

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I have a different Idea.

First of all, for price, they can run about .50 - 1.50 / lb. That means that a 15 lb weight is gonna run you 8-20 bucks or so.... just like capi said.

I'd say get a pair of 15's, and a pair of like 45's or something up there. You'll be able to do some heavier exercises without pvssy weights (like lunges, DB Squats, Rows, Tricep extensions, incline bench, flat bench, decline bench, shrugs) and stimulate muscle growth.
 

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I've got an even better idea. Why not invest the 20-30 bucks you planned on spending on dumbbells and use it to get a month's membership at a local gym. Then you can use all of theirs, and all of the rest of their weight equipment too - for as long as you want. If you don't like going after the end of the month, you'll know just what weight you should get.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah the gym would be good but I wanna get a little bigger before I go.
 

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There's no sense in that.. I mean, the whole reason why you go to the gym is to get big in the first place. Dumbbells at home isn't going to turn you into some ripped guy anyway - you'll only get that way by eating right and targeting each muscle group... something that is better done at a gym.

I go to the YMCA. At the one I go to, I've seen everything from 90 year olds to hugely obese people in the weightroom (well, the room with the machines... not so much the free weights...) If they can find the motivation to get there, I think that you can definitely do it too.
 

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Those little dumbbells arent going to do you any good

that would mean you'd be benching/squating/deadlifting/shoulderpressing/curling
the exact same weight - thats no good

trust me, just go to the gym that will get you the results you want
 

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I got a set of dumbells today.

All they are is a bar maybe 14 inches long, and you put weights on it and it has a weight clip on the end.

Result? I got a ****load of weights so I can do anything from 6lbs to up to 60ish and only spent around 75 dollars on it. I know that these weights are going to last me a LONG time.

Mine are like these
 
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