"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1st day college, didn't follow through, what to do on Wed.?

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I'm a complete newb; pleas take that into account.

I was sitting one row behind and left of a girl in this humongous psych class auditorium. I came in a bit late so she noticed me when I walked in. After I sat down, she would look over at the girl next to her, when the prof said something funny, but the other girl wasn't looking at her. that's when I saw her face and how damn hot she is.

Then ten minutes from end of lecture, she turns around and looks up at me, and I looked back and we made deep eye contact and held it for a bit (she broke it . Once, the lecture was over, I waited a couple moments and she locked eyes again and smiled.

I took this as a sign to mean that she wanted to be approached. I got up right before she got up. Stupidly I thought I should lead the way... ie. be the dominant man, etc. But walked toward the rear entrance, and she went toward the front.

I would like desparate if I turned around and approached her then, no?

Was this the right thing to do? What should I do next time?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just talk to her and see where it goes. Usually everybody in class is friendly because they want to make some friends.
 
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nah i think it wouldn't of been desperate if you turned around. just make it look like you turned around to talk to her. i mean that is what you wanted to do right? it would of been fine. *slowly walk up to her* "hello..." take it from there :)
 
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Dude man, geez. I mean, come on. Jeebus Christ.

I'm gonna start a business where midgets wearing big flashing arrow costumes hang around social areas like classrooms and bars, and when a girl is giving the most obvious signals ever, he'll point the arrow to her and turn on the flashing lights. It'll say "Fvcking talk to her!". Then, after the guy (hopefully) gets the number, he pays the midget for his services.

Yea, I'll make millions...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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alright. I thought it was equivalent to sending a message of interest and then escaping/backing down.
 
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I'm gonna start a business where midgets wearing big flashing arrow costumes hang around social areas like classrooms and bars, and when a girl is giving the most obvious signals ever, he'll point the arrow to her and turn on the flashing lights. It'll say "Fvcking talk to her!". Then, after the guy (hopefully) gets the number, he pays the midget for his services.
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Not if I beat you to it... its a race to the patent office !


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I did stupid things like that back in the day haha. Wow I probably was the worst, I had a japaneze/hispanic mix giving me the most obvious signals and I never talked to her. After 3 days of OVERT signals she never even glanced my way again... what a fuggin shame man... that's what pulled me into these sites.

Could you have picked up on the clues ??

1. Row of 15 chairs... 3 people in the row... she sits directly next to me !
2. She asks me, "hey what's ur name ?"
3. She waits for me after class... times her exit perfectly with mine... proceeds to walk me to my dorm...

Guys are such dumbasses sometimes... girls must get a good laugh out of us


-Cod3r
 
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lol, don't sweat it. You should've walked right to her after class. Read my college posts of about getting girls when your a freshmen.
 
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