"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1st date with hb10 tonight - IM AN AFC RIGHT NOW, HELP!

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hey my whole post was about the fact that being the way i am and being a player, i was surpised at why i felt all nervous abotu the hb10.......wow i actually posted asking ADVICE, and maybe onyl 1 person gave it to me while the rest sat back and acted like lil online wannabe bullies or some shyt

u tellin me i cant post alot of advice and then ask for advice even ONCE????
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this thread is pointless now cuz that was yesterday, and the bytch flaked, theres nothin more to discuss on this
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
hey my whole post was about the fact that being the way i am and being a player, i was surpised at why i felt all nervous abotu the hb10.......
Authenticity (or the lack of).
 

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WOW i cant believe how many losers sit here and flame just for fun........faaaaaaaaags
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude the faggot is sitting there calling me fake with ZERO evidence,
You haven't posted any evidence to the contrary.
 

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the evidence is in my words, just like it is in anyones words, but theres no evidence when someone who doesnt kno me thinks im makin shyt up!!

i wouldnt sit here and post things that arent the truth, tahts ****in retarded
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW i cant believe how many losers sit here and flame just for fun........faaaaaaaaags
Fags? You got something against homosexuals? Don't use that word please.
 

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If you had anticipated a flake, you could have used a good line to tell her off in a funny way and maintain control...perhaps make her think twice about her decision (and it was her decision).

What we're not getting is details of your communications with her leading up to the 'date'. Were you being AFC or chilled-out and DJ? You can feel AFC, but your contact with her should have been all confident and 'I am the Prize'.

Hey, if you learned something then it's not a total loss. Not much you can do if she's now getting hammered by Mystery or Style instead of you. :)
 

izza

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If your gut says bring her flowers, bring her flowers dawg.

Forget the rules, they are a crutch until you learn to walk.

Good luck, and remember that she's human. Doc Love says the hardest thing to do is to stop acting like an idiot once a beautiful woman is in the room.

Sarge on!!!

Izza
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh she flaked? That's lame.

You're probably not going to believe me, but I think that's why you were nervous. You somehow knew she was going to flake.

Izza
 

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Oh she flaked? That's lame.

You're probably not going to believe me, but I think that's why you were nervous. You somehow knew she was going to flake.

Izza
 

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b4 the date, i called her like 3 hours b4 it (cuz we hadnt talked on the phoone yet) and she asked what we are doing, i said "its a surprise", cuz i seriously didnt wanna just TELL her what i had planned cuz that made no sense to me.........i was gonna initially pick her up form work and i knew her address there, but then she told me shes not workin that day, so i asked for directions, at which time she said she'll call me back in 5 minutes, and i never heard from her again

****IN *****!
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
b4 the date, i called her like 3 hours b4 it (cuz we hadnt talked on the phoone yet) and she asked what we are doing, i said "its a surprise", cuz i seriously didnt wanna just TELL her what i had planned cuz that made no sense to me.........i was gonna initially pick her up form work and i knew her address there, but then she told me shes not workin that day, so i asked for directions, at which time she said she'll call me back in 5 minutes, and i never heard from her again

****IN *****!
I wonder why...

Muppet.
 

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THIS POST IS SAD

first of all shame on you tovarishch SKIP, you are trying to validate yourself to the dj's here. Why are you so worried about what they think, man? about the HB you know, it happens. sometimes we are not on our game or the girl just acts like a byatch.
she wasn't interested, so what? NEXT
the problem here is you are trying to put on an act, you are basically trying to be something you are not. IN YOUR POST you describe yourself to be the BEST PLAYER AROUND. (now that is great) you exagerate on how many girls you are sleeping with (that is pathetic) if you actually lay that many girls, props to you dude. I for one, doubt it. not because i am jelous ( i could care less) but because you love attention. you are all depressed about loosing your skills because of my space, yet when people show interest you make like 4 different threads on it. AND YOU ARE INCREADIBLY HAPPY WITH THE ATTIENTION YOU GET.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NOW TO THE OTHER DJS

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?
you jump on a fellow DJ every f*cking chance you get,
why?
why be so hostile?
why are you so ready to flame?
to bring people down?
if they are gettig play, you imediately try to destroy their confidence, to destroy their advice.
and you b*tch and cry about the sh*t flying around in this forum, you moan about the quality when is YOU (all of you) who ruin the very forum you claim to be a part of.

you remind me of WOMEN, who act catty towards eachother in order to bring them down. WHAT THE F*CK?
we are supposed to know women to get better play
not to start acting like them.
 

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why dont u hotlink the pictures so u dont have to link to her myspace
 
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Ok, Skip, Listen To Me

Before I talk to skip, what you guys need to understand on this forum is this. We are all, or mostly in our early 20's, we are growing into young, successful, and very attractive men. This forum is supposed to be a place where we come together to HELP EACH OTHER, grow into their full potential. This forum SHOULD NOT be a place where we come and tear each other down, life did that to most of us, so let's not add fuel to the fire, let's put it out.

OKAY? Can we act like young men and not young azzes?

To skip. I'm about to increase your pvssy flow.

You said this,

"b4 the date, i called her like 3 hours b4 it (cuz we hadnt talked on the phoone yet) and etc, etc, ......flake"

First off, when you do myspace, or when you meet a chick in person and you get her number. DO NOT SET UP DATES, that's waaayyy too early. That's getting the ketchup bottle out before you order the sandwich.

When you meet a chick and you get her number, on the first phone call, I need you to be oooozzzzing the sexual tonality, the sexual state, and the sexual flow. Your voice should be lower, you should notice that you are licking your lips, and you should be grabbing your dyck (all this subconsciously and without knowing you are doing it).......when you guys are talking, you should also notice that you talk slower, ok? Talk about anything light, a party, a movie, the club....what she's wearing.......add in sexual indoendo(I can't spell it) and you SHOULD notice that she is starting to relax and MATCH your state a little.....THEN END THE CALL. Say you got to do something, and you'll call her back later, or what I do, tell her to call you back if she called first, doesn't really matter.

DON'T CALL HER BACK THAT NIGHT. If she calls back, don't answer.

Wait until about 2 nights, and call her back in the evening, hmmmm, around 9 or 10. Have the same sexual stuff going on that I explained before.....NOW, tell her you just got in and you'll call her right back in about an hour, or tell her to call you back in an hour..........

THE HOUR PASSES.....

....now you two are on the phone, should be approaching midnight on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday, or even Thursday.......go right back into sexual indoendo, I need you to have MORE sexual flow right now, MORE....then go right into phone sex....I usually begin wit tellin her to blow me a kiss, then tell her, "say somethin freaky to me baby," she'll laugh seductively...stay in the flow, stay persistent, within 5 minutes she'll give in and start the moaning or she'll say, "You start it." Then you know how to phone bone right? Do it for about 30 minutes, THEN SET A TIME TOMORROW, after you get done doing your thing in the day time, for you to pick her up and for her to "show me what you can do, baby, haha" You got me?

Now pick her up tomorrow and go chill in a room somewhere, grab some beers and music.....THEN FVCK HER.

NOOOW, after you've fvcked her, now you can take her on dates and shyt.

Any questions, pm me.

- John
 
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Lol, by the way skip look at your views man. 1,000 views in 24 hours? Dude, you need to start selling something on this site man. I'm serious, fvck that accounting job. People got mad love for you on this site buddy, lol, that's why those flamers flame because nobody clicks in to see their posts, lol.

When I log in here you know what I say, seriously? I say, "I wonder if skip has another post up?" Apparently, according to the amount of hits your posts get, I'm not the only skip 2 my lou fan on here.

- John
 

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DJF that may be what you do.. but that never works unless the girl is a huge slut. Sorry.

You may wanna check for any STDs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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