1st date with hb10 tonight - IM AN AFC RIGHT NOW, HELP!

[skip2mylou781]

WOW for the first time in a looooooong time, im sittin here at work and feel really nervous, really AFC'ish because at 8 tonight, i have a date with a myspace chick whos deff a TEN in my books, and for some reason im overcome with all this AFC feeligns such as nervousness, shaking, wanting to buy her a gift, take her out, and worrying about her liking me aka ONEITIS...........this is really messed up cuz i been playin girls for such a long time now, hell ive hooked up with 4 girls just the last 3 days!!!!

what is going on here?? I dont wanan blow it with this one, cuz she deff wants to see me and a couple days ago she told me "so when are u gonna come see me cutie?".....and thats when we set up the date for thursday (today)

im seriously confused as SHYT as to why i even feel like this.......and shes not just some hb10, in fact she seems like even tho she gets alot of attention from guys, she actualyl is sweet, is into love and romance, and yea u get what i mean....this is why part of me just wants to bring her a flower or somethin and sweep her off her feet...........but then i remember sosuave and also how i been with sooo many girls the last year, and that part makes me wanna push/pull, play games, b kinda a jerk, ect ect

WTF SHOULD I DO? ANY ADVICE IS WELCOME!!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Talk about jumping in prematurely. Unless you get it into your head that you will have a good date, you're going to fulfill your prophecy of failure. It's just a date, don't make yourself nervous by making it out into more than what it really is.

 

[Wiesman44]

if you haven't seen her in person yet, then don't be so quick to label her a 10.


Many many girls on myspace crop their pictures to make them look better than they really are.

 

[skip2mylou781]

nah trust me her pics arent the problem, shes got 16 up (the max limit), including closeup face shots, swimsuit pics (all very clear and untouched photoshop wise), and other various pics.........the problem is, ive put her up on a pedestal and i DONT wanna blow this date by acting like a freakin AFC which i havent even felt like for a long time.........i need some kinda motivation/advice to make this afc'ness go the **** away!!!

 

[wayword]

Dude, don't worry about being nice or a jerk...worry about MAINTAINING YOUR FRAME and being the PRIZE.

Problem is, you're already letting her AFFECT you and get sucked into HER world and frame. But, the man should be the LEADER, not the FOLLOWER. You need to be the rock that she can lean on.

Whatever you do (nice, jerky, whatever is appropro at the moment), just stand your ground and let your frame/world overpower hers. Draw her in and let her conform to YOU.

PS - Keep in mind I'm a KBDJ, so I make no claims at being an expert, tho.

 

[skip2mylou781]

still good advice........i told her id take her out to dinner, movie, or to play pool.....but im thinkin to throw a swerve at her and take her out somewhere totally random to look unpredictable, hell maybe even just TELL her we r goin to my house to drink and watch a movie (classic gunwitch - fclose most likely), but the only thign with that is, im a random guy from myspace and she mite niot wanna just go to my house.............she seems really sweet, like shes LOOKING for love, which makes me hesitant about being c+f and shyt, and instead makes me wanna be romantic and sweet

however, i WILL lead the date, no matter what it is...........but i cant get over this feeling, i feel like i can only get rid of this feeling of afc'nses if i.....get tipsy b4 the date LOL (im 100% serious)

 

[Cod3r]

nah trust me her pics arent the problem, shes got 16 up (the max limit), including closeup face shots, swimsuit pics (all very clear and untouched photoshop wise), and other various pics

LoL you don't even know her and you're defending her like she gave birth to you... you guys get worst everyday

And what guy said about labeling an HB10 before you see her in person haha, how true... haha i've been fooled in the past, i dunn do the online thing but used to back when AOL had the AMAZING database which made it too easy... but yeah 10's can easily become 6's man, don't be surprised

OR what could happen is you're so hyped up, u see her and ur disappointed but u convince urself she's a 10 and then a few weeks later it finally hits you, this bvtch is a 7... lmao, wow do i miss my old days


-Cod3r

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

I knew it!!

You're a pansy! You give soo much damn advice on this forum, but really you are just a chump on the inside putting on a show.

"Look at me, I'm Alpha."

And when the time comes to test yourself like now...

Oh well, best of luck to you.

 

[skip2mylou781]

I knew it!!

You're a pansy! You give soo much damn advice on this forum, but really you are just a chump on the inside putting on a show.

"Look at me, I'm Alpha."

And when the time comes to test yourself like now...

Oh well, best of luck to you.

wtf *******?

this is the 1st time i got over a girl like this in a LONG time, which is why im confused in the first place!.......b4 this one, it was one hoe after another smooth sailing....if ur not gonna give advice, then **** off

 

[Shiftkey]

I knew it!!

You're a pansy! You give soo much damn advice on this forum, but really you are just a chump on the inside putting on a show.

"Look at me, I'm Alpha."

And when the time comes to test yourself like now...

Oh well, best of luck to you.

Everyone gets nervous sometimes.

 

[L777]

hell ive hooked up with 4 girls just the last 3 days!!!!

No you haven't.

i'm an AFC

The truth at last.

A friend of mine who happens to be a psychologist told me that people who brag (especially when they can't prove the boast) are insecure 99.99% (Nothing can be 100% in the field of psychology, thats the highest) of the time, and lying 98% of the time.

I would bet my house that you are full of s.hit, little boy.

 

[skip2mylou781]

"no u havent" - right, u have no basis to say that u dumb peice of ****

and i didnt say im an afc, u ****in ******* misquoting me like that, i said TODAY i am an AFC cuz im all worried bout this date and its never been like this b4

but dont worry u british fruit, ill pull it together, see her, and end up ****in her by the end of the nite, while u can sit here trying to be a snobby brit

****in *******

 

[skip2mylou781]

she flaked.......

 

[KillaCam]

she flaked.......

MySpace just owned you. Big time.

 

[Bvbidd]

A friend of mine who happens to be a psychologist told me that people who brag (especially when they can't prove the boast) are insecure 99.99% (Nothing can be 100% in the field of psychology, thats the highest) of the time, and lying 98% of the time.

How the fvck is this possible?

So if anybody tells you anything they did it's 2% real just because they are the ones who brang it up? lol

 

[skip2mylou781]

MySpace just owned you. Big time.

u are 100% right on that one........ive met FOUR girls b4 this one the last 4 days, all were good, so i guess i was due for a flake, its just a shame to me that this also happened to be the one i was most looking forward to seeing by far (as u can see by my initial thread)

ITS ALL A NUMBERS GAME


but im still pretty damn disapointed cuz this girl was deff WOW

 

[skip2mylou781]

How the fvck is this possible?

So if anybody tells you anything they did it's 2% real just because they are the ones who brang it up? lol

nobody can ****in prove anything anyway unless they shoot videos of themselves ****in every single girl they were with

l777 is a total retard, dont mind him

 

[belividere]

ITS ALL A NUMBERS GAME

Sorry to hear about that.

While yes it is a numbers game meeting girls in person and talking for 5 or 10 minutes allows you to weed out and those that are worth the time as well as gain some rapport and comfort.

When anyone approaches girls it becomes obvious when to close and when not to. Its the beauty of the mating dance played out for those first few minutes (really the most essential few minutes) that can make you or break you. You display your body language, way with words, interest, and value while she can recipricate or deny any advances.

This isn't something (at least for me) that can be conveyed over text. I dont get many girls who flake and the ones who do usually have something come up and make it up to me. What ever happened to your idea of giving up on myspace a week or so ago? If anything, since people have been interested you seem to have turned up the myspace volume.

If it makes you feel any better about it she's probably getting nailed right now from some guy who she meet face to face.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Sorry to hear about that.

While yes it is a numbers game meeting girls in person and talking for 5 or 10 minutes allows you to weed out and those that are worth the time as well as gain some rapport and comfort.

When anyone approaches girls it becomes obvious when to close and when not to. Its the beauty of the mating dance played out for those first few minutes (really the most essential few minutes) that can make you or break you. You display your body language, way with words, interest, and value while she can recipricate or deny any advances.

This isn't something (at least for me) that can be conveyed over text. I dont get many girls who flake and the ones who do usually have something come up and make it up to me. What ever happened to your idea of giving up on myspace a week or so ago? If anything, since people have been interested you seem to have turned up the myspace volume.

If it makes you feel any better about it she's probably getting nailed right now from some guy who she meet face to face.

and if it makes HER feel any better, i just ****ed a girl yesterday and im gonna **** my gf tomorro nite.........still tho, despite my obvious lack of morals, i WANTED TO SEE HER lol.....is this karma or wat?

 

[belividere]

I'm just busting your balls with that last line.

Sh1t happens when we least expect it, or at least when we least hope for it too. So yeah I guess that really is karma huh.

WTF are you doing dating a girl if want to be fvcking a new girl every night?