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1st date went pretty but didnt go in for the kiss.

guayaballer

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well for the past week i talked to this girl here and there and she had problems with her boyfriend i tried not to get stuck listening so i mae her laugh about other topics well thursday i asked her how was her vacation and what she was doing she complained about her bf agen and then she sed nuttin and i sed that not acceptable we have to chill at once the next day i was busy so it didnt happen but she sent a mesage through myspace giving me her number and to call well i came late and she told me that she really needed to get out so we shceduled for today two hours before we met her boyfriend broke up wit her (perfect timing haha) and we went to the mall at first she talked about her boyfriend and how hes an ******* but i kept mostly quiet since my father drove us their but when we got to the mall we explored and she wouldnt shutup about how much he hated him ughh well den we came to this store called spencers which saved me cause their was so much cool stuff to talk bout and i started to just relax and have fun with her. we walked around and i slowly kinoed her touching her arm and neghitting her whenever i made a joke bout her she would make the oh im hurt face so i put my arm around her everytime and said its okk and continued wit the neg hit and den i took my arm off her slowly increasing the time i had it around her we ate and she no longer sed anything about her boyfriend. yesss well then we waited for the bus to go home and she was cold so i put my arm around her ta keep her warm she didnt seem to mind so den on the bus i had my arm around her the whole time and everytime i made a scene and yelled out loud singin backstreet boy songs and corny songs like that shed pinch me and then would rest her head against my shoulder now i realize i shud kissed her i just pussied out ughh then we waited for the next bus and i was holding her agen wit my chin ontop of her head and the bus didnt come so i walked her halfway so her parents wouldnt see us and she gave me a long good hug and said she had fun.

well it was overall a good date but she goes to myschool and is in my 3td prd class so now i dont know how to continue from their. do i talk to her or act uninterested a bit? did i mess up and blow my chance for the kiss? should i try to make a move on monday?
 

AdrenalynJunkee

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Read the bible. Continue as if you rocked on the first date. Don't try to make up for it. You didn't do anything wrong. Just be sure to read the body language. Making a move on the first date isn't always a good deal. Sure a DJ can make a successful move anytime, but I tend to test them out first. See if theyre really a girl I want hanging from my nuts. If yes, then I show them the mack daddy skills. lol
 

Luscious

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It is not the end of the world if you don't kiss her on the first date.
You're both in high school and you likely won't see her again after graduation. There's really nothing to be worried about. Nothing you do or don't do will make-or-break it.

That being said, play it normal. Don't act too disinterested because she will think things are awkward between you two. See if she wants to do something after school in the near future. Hopefully she will want to do you.
 
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