"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1st Credit Card Appointment Today

ryan killa

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Ok, in several hours I will be at my bank. Any key questions I should be asking or anything, other than the obvious: ie. what are the rates, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sifer

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Credit card appointment...? Wow they interview you now for a credit card? That's very unheard of.

At any rate, good luck!

Make sure to understand any small or fine prints, look for ways to lower interest rate in case you get locked in at a fixed IR but the IR decides to lower itself. You may even need to re-apply for a card that uses and fix on the lower IR.
 

DJDanny

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hell around here they give you free **** just to fill out one of their applications and they boost my limit every other month
 

Alpine

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eerr....

That sounds like bad news. Any CC company, and especially a bank that make out we'll only give you one if you qualify, jump through these hoops, guaranted they will fleece you on rates.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dust 2 Dust

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An interview, are you kidding me? This doesn't make any sense. At my University they practically give away credit cards to anyone who fills out the application. I got approved for two credit cards and I don't even have a job LOL.
 

diablo

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He's from Canada. Perhaps things are different there; I've never heard of having an interview to apply for a credit card. In fact, googling "credit card application" gave me nearly 16 million results. All I can say is it must be one hell of a credit card.
 
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