"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jay-X

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how much would you spend for a ring to celebrate your 1st anniversary of being steady?
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
how much would you spend for a ring to celebrate your 1st anniversary of being steady?
Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I would instead create an emotionally laden event.

Ideas: A picnic at night. Find an unusual place (a roof-top, a forest setting, a clean but totally empty building). Set up an elegant table with long white cloth, candles (tonnes, and tonnes of candles arranged in patterns--you can buy 100 tea candles for $2.00)

Make a "path" with the candles, set up a "dance floor" with them.

Crystal champagne flutes, some champagne and excellent food (but not too much). Don't forget the mood music! Soft, romantic, sensuous.

Dress up in as close to a tuxedo as you can have. Act formal, romantic, alpha. Stare deeply into her eyes.

Make sure that you have a couple other activities to accompany it. If you can afford it, hire a violinist, or guitar player with a good repertoire of soft music. At least one hours worth as you eat. Have him stand about 15-20 feet away, and gently play.

After the meal where you totally focus on building her emotions, have had a drink or so, dance closely and slowly.

Then take her to a couple other "romantic" venues for no more than an hour, then take her home to your beautifully set up place.

The point is this: Don't waste your time buying her stuff. Do something that you will enjoy, and create a strongly emotional experience for her. Much better than buying a piece of hardware.
 

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hehe man, if i could do what you described, it would be perfect for me and her... anyway, it's a really good idea for an anniversary, i'll keep that in mind for when i'll be a lil' older!
 

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I think that completely depends on how much money you have in your pockets! Me, as a student, would not spend more than 200 bucks... but if I would be Bill Gates I would easily add four or five numbers!
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
hehe man, if i could do what you described, it would be perfect for me and her... anyway, it's a really good idea for an anniversary, i'll keep that in mind for when i'll be a lil' older!
Why not now, instead of a ring? The cost of the food, the candles and the other activities will probably come to less than the price of a ring. You'll both remember it forever, whereas if you give her a ring, and she dumps you or vice-versa, there'll only be resentment over the ring.

This way, you get to have fun, be creative, learn to push her buttons, she has a great time. She might lose the ring, but she'll never forget what you did for her--especially at your age!

What I presented was an idea. You can get really creative for super-cheap, and it'll still blow her mind.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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