19 and a virgin, what can I do to lose my v-card?

[ElStud]

Well I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin. Yes, that means I've never had sex. Now after a couple years of approaching girls, I've gained confidence with talking to them and have learned to not care if they reject me. Infact, my problem isnt talking to girls or being around girls or anything, it's that because of my situation it's hard for me to finally lose my virginity.

What is my situation? Well, 19, no car, no job and I live with my parents. Right now, I'm pretty much DEPENDANT on my friends for meeting women. And when I say dependant I mean dependant. See my friends have cars and can drive places. However, the fact that I don't have a car, pretty much means that if my friends don't go out(Or my friends can't give me a ride for some reason) and meet girls, I DON'T GO OUT to meet girls.

And pretty much if my friends don't call me up, I'm stuck at home, playing video games, which isn't all that bad, but yeah.

So in this situation, what can I do to help myself finally lose my virginity?

 

[daygameguy]

Grow some brains, work hard, get some value in your life as a fully independent working man.

Move out and explore life. Explore the world. Meet people.

You obviously have the resources to learn game. But you are very young. Anyone below 25 yrs of age, is very young in my opinion. You should dream big and try to have a normal natural life filled with family friends and women. That is called a normal social circle.

I never valued the importance of this social circle aspect in my life. So now I am stuck. But you should listen to my advice and try to best to achieve a nice balanced life - good health, required wealth, and abundant relationships.

 

[horaholic]

You could listen and apply some of the advice people give you here. I gave you a foolproof formula a few months back. Here it is again:

A: Find out where a party will be.
B: Send a mass text out to all the numbers you get while cold approaching inviting them to the party. Hopefully you can get them to roll to the party with you. If not, some of them will meet you there. (social proof)
C: go to party, get drunk and socialize, at least a couple of your numbers will show up. Use them for social proof.
D: Do this every time you hear about a party. Pretty soon you will be known as the guy who knows where the party is at, and also who brings the girls there.
E: Sooner or later, you will score.

Put your approaching to good use for christ's sake

 

[women haze]

Hookers man...Hookers. Don't forget your Jimmy cap

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

Hookers man...Hookers. Don't forget your Jimmy cap

While I have gone that route (sadly), at your age of 19, I would higly recommend against it. I went last year for my first time (when I was 27, did on my 27th bday) You are way too young to go that route mate. Follow the advice here, work on yourself and try to get free poontang.

I hope and pray that you don't end up like me, where I got so desperate that I resorted to an escort last year to lose my v-card.

 

[Err0r]

Take your v-card and put it in your pocket and focus on YOU. Finish school or get a job, or do both. Finance a car (you need a car!), getting a pad is a plus (im 21 and still live at home but this isn't a big problem), start hitting the gym, and just let things flow. girls will come.

 

[WaterTiger]

Why don't you have a job? Are you out of High School yet?

Unless you live out in the country somewhere, you can find a job, even if it's part time. Put on your walking shoes and go to every business in your area and ask if they need help. Fill out applications! (Take one home and make copies! It will save you hours) once you get a job, you'll have money for other things. Like cars, rent and women.

 

[jafyk]

Well, if it makes you feel any better. I lost my virginity at the age of 24, got my first job at 19, drove for the first time at 20, just got my bachelors degree at 27 gonna be 28 next month. Anyway, my point is everyone is not on the same time table. You should do what you can to get to your desired goals. Focus on achieving things like job, school and being social. Once you start getting successful in these things eventually you will get to that point where you loose your v-card. I think it's ridiculous if that's your greatest goal . Anyway, I think the key to your V-card situation is for you to be more social and apply the knowledge of women that you have learned here. It is also important to have an interesting life that you enjoy it also makes women attracted to you. Be real and best you. Hope my contribution helps.

 

[SickAgain]

Find a fat girl.

 

[CaptainJ]

Fvcking move out of your parents house. You have to become a real man, and a real man needs to learn to fend for himself.

 

[oakraiderz2]

You keep posting the same ol sh*t every other month. What happened to talkin to girls all the time and trying to get numbers? You need to step your sh*t up.

 

[Chrom3y]

Get a gf, its the easiest way...thats how I lost my v-card

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Stop trying so hard. You must focus on yourself first. Once your good with in you getting women becomes easier.

By the way... Loosing your virginity is way over hyped. I know when I first lost my virginity I thought sex was gonna be this "amazing thing". But, its nothing really after you first do it. I know a lot of other posters said the same thing when they lost their virginity. Though, it does get better later on.

Why do you wanna loose your viginity so bad. Is that because what society wants. Is it because, thats what others are doing or for your own ego?

The only thing you need to worry about is yourself. There is plenty of time in life to get pvssy...

 

[Mike32ct]

While I have gone that route (sadly), at your age of 19, I would higly recommend against it. I went last year for my first time (when I was 27, did on my 27th bday) You are way too young to go that route mate. Follow the advice here, work on yourself and try to get free poontang.

I hope and pray that you don't end up like me, where I got so desperate that I resorted to an escort last year to lose my v-card.

As somebody that took until 28 to lose it, I agree with this advice completely. Believe me, by 27, I was climbing the walls and was VERY tempted to hire a "professional." But, I stuck it out and finally lost it a year later to a girlfriend that I met online and dated for a while. It was a MUCH better choice. Who wants to be "on the clock" for your first time? Find a gf that will spend all night with you and want to do it more than once.

Like the other posters mentioned, definitely focus on finding a job, getting a car, going to the gym, etc. While I hear that some kids today are losing their V-card at friggin 13, 14, 15 <eye roll>, trust me, 19 is nothing. You're still young. Focus on the big picture and building up your life first.

 

[ketostix]

Have you tried internet gaming? It's probably the easiest way for someone like you to get laid.

 

[nismo-4]

F**k that internet sh*t, work on your day game. Go to gyms, coffee shops, even dance class/ yoga.

You also just gotta get out the house by yourself. You can also get a job and get a car (try to get an Acura/ Lexus/ BMW, doesn't have to be new, just clean.)

 

[playerone]

I'm the same age as you, ElStud. I don't have a car, and i'm still living with my parents. You sound like you need a social circle outside of your bunch of friends. Find a hobby. If you play basketball, you'll get to know more people in that area. You get what i mean. Have some goals in life, find something you really want to do, and enjoy it. Along the way, you'll find that opportunities are in store.

 

[Maxtro]

You go to college right? I think I read about you getting banned from the student union or something.

Is it a community college or university? If you go to a university have you talked to your parents about moving out? How about living on campus?

 

[Alle_Gory]

We've been over this. Clean out the pounds of wax from your ears and maybe something will trickle down.

Or not. Its much funnier reading the dumb sh*t you post.

Have you tried internet gaming? It's probably the easiest way for someone like you to get laid.

You mean like World of Warcraft? Yeah, I can see that...

 

[Kevin Feng]

If you're looking to run proper game, you really need the two following things:

1. Your own place
2. Your own car (unless you live in New York or something)

Otherwise, as you've experienced, you'll be extremely limited. These are things you can actively address. Get a job and save up for a car. This isn't even really pick up related, this is more of a life issue.

Get it handled.