"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jblitz59

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I want to hear peoples opinions on this

I'm an 18 male having some nice sexual relations with a 28 year old cutie:up: , but my best friend is dead shot against it knowing she's crazy or something is wrong with her to do that. Even so, if im not gonna date her is this not gonna end smoothly?

please help soon this is a day to day thing goin on
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jblitz59

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how much would be a good amount to be seeing this woman a week? 1 to 2?
 

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I'm 18 and my gf is 25, it doesn't matter. **** his opinion he ain't your bro if he's telling you otherwise. Ask him if he has a valid, logical reason against it.

If she's just a fbuddy then twice a week is straight. If she's really into you then do whatever you like, it'll be hard to do something that'll make her not like you.

Point being, it doesn't matter. If you can handle the stupid social stigma (not that it's that bad) attached then you're good.
 

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You may not want to get into anything long term, but for just a hook up it's fine. I fvcked a 30 year old when i was 21. I say keep doin her!
 

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Keep on doing her.

If your friend is saying something is not right in her head solely based on the age difference than he's a fvckin idiot.

Though if he has other complaints about her behavior keep that in mind and judge for yourself whether those behaviors crop up and are a negative to you that would cause you to next.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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46and2aheadofme

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I think it would set off an alarm for me if a girl 10 years older was going for me (a 31 year old).

You 2 are in completely different places in your lives. I don't even see how you can relate to each other. But I digress.

She may try to pull you into marriage because girls that age start to freak out because all of their friends start getting married and they start scrambling.

By all means don't end it just because you feel weird about it because of social norms.

I say do what makes you happy, but handle with care.

And don't do anything stupid like marrying her if you do get serious with her.
 

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thanks everyone, it does reassure me more. I dont plan on doing anything tooo serious with her i dont plan on dating her either.

KontrollerX said:
Keep on doing her.

If your friend is saying something is not right in her head solely based on the age difference than he's a fvckin idiot.

Though if he has other complaints about her behavior keep that in mind and judge for yourself whether those behaviors crop up and are a negative to you that would cause you to next.
i dont plan to stop just he bases this all off of it took 36 hours for me to have sex with her, combined with the age difference is his argument.

my heart comes first just if she just starts becoming high maitenance then i will just avoid her and next
 
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