Crazy Asian
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so i read on the back of my whey protein powder that i shouldn't use under the age of 18......i'm 15 so is it a problem?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kev07 said:15 is pretty young to really start weightlifting seriously imo.
you can go for it if you really know what you're doing, but i wouldn't go bulking until im 16
Kev07 said:if you're not bulking then theres not much reason for you to take whey seriously anywayanyways
but whey is fine, my pediatrician said so, theres processed sh1t everywhere bro
if youre just going to take a scoop or some PWO then theres no way that can hurt you, but yeah, if you're not bulking i don't see much reason why you would take whey
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Milk,fruits and a serving of some type of meat or eggs.Crazy Asian said:AND IF I DONT DRINK A PROTEIN SHAKE, WHAT SHOULD I EAT RIGHT AFTER MY WORKOUT?