18 year old with 27 year old?

[Calidude1985]

I met this great girl that looked around her 20-22s, so I went up to her and started talking to her. The fact that she was in one of my classes made her look like a college chick. After I worked the magic, we were making out for hours in my house. I found out that she was 27 and that she was very unhappy with her BF, who is 30. Age difference seems a lot, but she doesn't look or act like it. She seems like she cares about me and really likes me. Problem is that I have a GF who I am unhappy with, (27 year old chick knows this) and that's why I didn't go all the way with her. I am willing to break up with my current GF for this girl because she is so much better in every way. She will also break up with her BF when I break up with my GF.


What do you guys think? You think it'll work out between us? Age really matters?

 

[JesterX]

Well if your unhappy with your current girlfriend you should break-up with her regardless, thats all the advice i got.

 

[typical]

Just go for it man

 

[Mad_Rhetoric]

You have to be careful, that almost sounds like babysitting, that's the only thing I see that could be a problem. Not to mention friends/any other guy that might be after her might know that too.

 

[coolguy676767]

tell me this is a joke right. I mean come on tell me its a joke.

You are UNHAPPY with your g/f, and ask if you should break up with her. Ok if you are a DJ, then you should never go out or deal with a girl that is not good enough for you for one. Secondly you have a 27 yeal old, thats right a 27 YEAR OLD, and you can't seal the deal without asking your friends(the don juan site) if its ok?

Ok sorry to be harsh and all, but man up and grab your balls and go in there and take what's yours(27 year old). Worst comes to worst you are gonna get a lay out of it and a story for the ages of getting a girl 9 years older than you. Plus you get the advantage of a girl that is more mature than most girls your with and probably plays less games.

 

[Wyldfire]

I met this great girl that looked around her 20-22s, so I went up to her and started talking to her. The fact that she was in one of my classes made her look like a college chick. After I worked the magic, we were making out for hours in my house. I found out that she was 27 and that she was very unhappy with her BF, who is 30. Age difference seems a lot, but she doesn't look or act like it. She seems like she cares about me and really likes me. Problem is that I have a GF who I am unhappy with, (27 year old chick knows this) and that's why I didn't go all the way with her. I am willing to break up with my current GF for this girl because she is so much better in every way. She will also break up with her BF when I break up with my GF.


What do you guys think? You think it'll work out between us? Age really matters?

As an older woman who prefers younger guys...I would NEVER have dated or gotten involved with an 18 year old at 27. Nine years isn't that big of a deal in and of itself, but when one of the people is only 18 or 19 years old it's too much. When I was 34 I had a relationship with a 24 year old, and to me that bordered on pushing what I personally find acceptable. At her age she is going to be somewhat ready to settle down. You're so young and at this age you might think you have the world by the balls and that you know what you're doing and what you want. However, in a few years you'll figure out that you were full of it. We ALL go through that once we get a little older. You should be dating girls very close to your own age and learning what does and doesn't work for you and what you can and can't live with. Older women ARE much easier to have a quality relationship with, but it's inevitable that you will find yourself being led by an older woman at your age. She's older, wiser, more experienced and more comfortable with who she is. Although those are all desirable traits...no 18 year old can have a truly balanced relationship with someone much older than they are. She will be in control of the relationship and there won't be any way for you to change that. That is the same dynamic you see with older men who only pursue 18 and 19 year old girls. They do that because those younger partners are so easy to control. Anyone who targets such a young person to get involved with when they are older do so because they are too weak to be able to deal with the healthy give and take that needs to exist in any quality relationship.

If having a good healthy balance in a relationship where you can lead is important to you I wouldn't suggest trying to have a relationship with this woman at this point. I think it could potentially damage your confidence and growth into manhood. That's not saying that older women intend to control and lead a relationship with a younger man or that they mistreat the guy. In fact, older women typically treat a younger guy very well. I just think it will be harder for you to learn how to find that good balance if you jump into a relationship where the women will end up leading. I take the same position on the subject of older men with 18 or 19 year old girls for the same reason...they still have a lot of growing and learning to do and getting involved with someone who is going to really tie them down and miss out on being young stunts their growth process.

 

[SamePendo]

Have you ever felt so hungry that you were willing to eat a huuuuge meal. But when you are finished, days after, you look at the quantity of what you ate and makes you go WHAT!?!?!

Both of you are going with the flow of something called hornyness, you are daydreaming. Once one of you sees what's going on they will back off. I doubt she is taking it THAT seriously. She is in an age of looking to get married. Don't look at your thing as too serious.

My point? Go for it, you have nothing to lose and everything to win. And Jester is right too.

 

[spider_007]

as a frustrated chump my self, frogive me if i say; you sound like an average frustrated chump.

older chicks that go out with younger men are attraced to exitement, STAMINA....(basicly coOCK), Her wining about her b/f was her way of saying, "don't be same as him, rock my world". If she did say something about your g/f, it was her way of trying not to sound like a slut. YOU COULD HAVE HAD IT....

i just noticed it's your first post

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

maybe this would be appropriate?





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[DJsparky]

How do you fully know that she will break up with her bf? On the flip side if your not happy with your gf break it off with her.

 

[Calidude1985]

The girl said she already did break up with her BF and that he would let her stay until she found a roommate (another place to stay).

This makes me think that:
A) she's lying to me, she didn't tell him yet... she's waiting for me to break up with my GF
B) her BF or ex-BF is a pvssy who would let her stay for few days/weeks (which is the reason I am "exciting" for her)
C) she's not sure that I am for real and not just trying to get her into her pants, so she wants few days/weeks to find out more about me.


I think I would've had it if I didn't ask for it. I told her that I wanted to be inside her and make her scream... we did everything besides sex, but I still had a great time. She is still testing me, and she doesn't want to ruin it by having sex the first day. After all these c*ck-teases, the sex will be out of this world.


I AM kind of worried about the age, just because of the starting family/kids situation. I told her that I'm not ready for kids, and she also told me that I probably won't want kids at this age.

I would love to go out with this girl for years and be very happy with her. I don't even know if SHE wants to start a family/kids. We didn't talk about everything.

 

[DJsparky]

do you see her as a potential gf or a potential fvck buddy?

 

[Calidude1985]

She is GF material. This girl seems to REALLY care about me, and I just hope it's not just some game she's playing until she "knows me better".

Out of every girl I've been with, she treated me the best, and is horny as me

 

[DJsparky]

then go for it, take the risk.