"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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18 year old boy destroys his life by dating 15 year old girl (murder plot)

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Yeah...it is sick. Ironically, around the same time that happened there was a particularly horrendous Domestic Violence episode in my neighborhood. The husband tried to kill his wife in front of their children. He grabbed his crying 10 month old baby on a short break from beating his wife and said "This is the night your mother is going to die" and then punched the baby in the head. The wife took the phone while he was doing this and dialed 911 while coughing to hide what she was doing and then set the cordless handset on the bookcase headboard of their bed, connected to 911. They have what he did to that baby on tape as well as his attempt to kill his wife. She somehow managed to grab the baby and get outside and screamed for help. Some neighbors grabbed the baby and around that time the police showed up. The guy is facing at least 27 years for what he did.
that piece of **** should fry for that!
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
that piece of **** should fry for that!
Oh, I'm sure he's getting his a$$ kicked on a daily basis in jail. Even though Vermont's prisons aren't as bad as most other places...being small means that EVERYONE knows what you did to end up doing time. The run of the mill violent offenders rip the living sh*t out of the pedophiles, rapists, child abusers and woman beaters quite regularly. That guy will suffer big time for what he did.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Oh, I'm sure he's getting his a$$ kicked on a daily basis in jail. Even though Vermont's prisons aren't as bad as most other places...being small means that EVERYONE knows what you did to end up doing time. The run of the mill violent offenders rip the living sh*t out of the pedophiles, rapists, child abusers and woman beaters quite regularly. That guy will suffer big time for what he did.
How do you know, have you been in jail yourself?
 

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Originally posted by mahon83050
How do you know, have you been in jail yourself?
As a former seller of street pharmacuticals, I know plenty of guys from jail and i can vouch for Fire when she says that wife beaters pedophiles and the lot are reemed pretty badly in jail. They're not the only ones but guys like that are easy prey while on lock down, we're talking about a different society, different mentality, and nearly a different breed of people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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