"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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18 year old at work

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Hi....i work with about fifty people and I think one of the 18 year olds at work likes me. I am 35 yrs old but look 28. I am attracted to her but I know it isnt socially acceptable to go after her due to the age difference. I told myself I can say hi....talk to her in passing or talk to her if we r in same area....
I also told myself not to go out of my way to talk to her or to friend request her on fb.
My philosophy is to let her be the aggressor in order to avoid me looking like a "creep".

What do u guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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I suggest to set our swords free and be ready to throw a spell cause a troll is approaching...
 

Naughty Ninja

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yellowstoneman2012 said:
Hi....i work with about fifty people and I think one of the 18 year olds at work likes me. I am 35 yrs old but look 28. I am attracted to her but I know it isnt socially acceptable to go after her due to the age difference. I told myself I can say hi....talk to her in passing or talk to her if we r in same area....
I also told myself not to go out of my way to talk to her or to friend request her on fb.
My philosophy is to let her be the aggressor in order to avoid me looking like a "creep".

What do u guys think?

I think you've come to the right place! There are loads of DJs here 35 and up (who all look mid twenties) that pull countless hot 18 year olds on a regular basis.

If perhaps said 18 year old was at work for bring your daughter to work day, you could try shmoozing with her parent(s) to weasel your way into her panties. Keep it Alpha yo.


May I suggest you break into your best Milton Waddams impression to give her teh LULZ?: And I said, I don't care if they lay me off either, because I told, I told Bill that if they move my desk one more time, then, then I'm, I'm quitting, I'm going to quit. And, and I told Don too, because they've moved my desk four times already this year, and I used to be over by the window, and I could see the squirrels, and they were married, but then, they switched from the Swingline to the Boston stapler, but I kept my Swingline stapler because it didn't bind up as much, and I kept the staples for the Swingline stapler and it's not okay because if they take my stapler then I'll set the building on fire...
 
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Thanks. We dont do same job but she is in my building

Just an fyi...this is my career...not some job I dont care about...i know I cant get in trouble legally but I would be hated probably
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't shiit where you eat. There are billions of women in the world, go bang one of them.
 
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It's very possible she's into older guys.....ask her out for a drink after work.....what's the worst that can happen? That said if she's 18 well.....hmmmm....18yo girls can be quite erratic and have trouble keeping their mouths shut. There's no telling what sort of shight she may pull if she becomes obsessed with you and you don't want her any more.
 

Love's Orphan

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I have two 18 y/o coworkers. They are both friends. One of them had princess syndrome. One day, I told her she was mean and to this day she helps me with everything just to prove she is nice. Both of them are receptive to kino. They both initiate kino. They stand too close. they both tell me the other one likes me. The whole idea of not shïtting where i eat is making me a challenge, like i suspected. And to add to the inability to make a move without risking my job, the place has cameras.
 

Poonani Maker

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I am 80% certain to fvck a 19 yr old Saturday. Her 20 yr old friend, who I haven't fvcked (yet), is who I met her through. I fvcked one of her other 19 yr old friends a couple of weeks ago. It bothers me a little that I haven't fvcked this 20 yr old nerd who has all these hot girlfriends (who are dumber) that I meet through her. I will one day fvck her too. She is every bit as hot (I'd say above all of her friends that I've met through her), but she still thinks she's too good for me. I've tried to get something going with her, but she always fizzles out on our plans, even when I've got gossip for her about what her girlfriend (I fvcked) said about her behind her back (not good). She still avoids me in a sexual way. I can't thank her enough, though, for introducing me to all her friends. None of them work related, but through friends of friends. This is how I became so trusted in the first place, but if they'd ran into me without my friends, then they'd not be so trusting, I'd imagine. It doesn't matter to her that I've fvcked one of her friends, and will likely fvck another this Saturday. She may even know the details. Women can be pretty graphic. Don't think she's jealous, because she won't go out with me. But the more and more of her friends I fvck, hopefully, the more and more wind of that, she'll Maybe start coming around, and I'll finally get to fvck her too. She's the best looking so far.
 
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Thanks for the info. I think the main reason I am attracted to her is because she told a co worker I was good looking.

Now when a cute eighteen year old with a tight body still says u are attractive in her eyes at thirty five...it is a HUGE Ego boost.

If it were a 28 year old that said this it would not be as powerful. Anyway I cant get this girl out of my head. I guess it is because I have zero prospects at the moment.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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