"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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18 Trying to lose my virginity, FAST

grimsavage

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Aright so im 18 and still a virgin :/ ive been with girls before but when it comes to getting intimate and stuff i just dont know how :((. background info- im done with high school in legit 2 days and it depresses me so much one cuz i wont see all my friends and **** anymore and 2 i wont be around so many females everyday. Now I say i want to lose it fast but not to anyone well maybe anyone but i have my standards you know. Can you guys help me out i can talk to girls ok i guess im more of the stupid up front type so ill say anything neccesary to reach my goal if any of you guys could like walk me thru it it'd be hella appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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Read the DJ bible. Go talk to females. If they're friendly towards you ask them out. On the date be sexual. If she responds well to it then get her alone i.e. your place, her place, hotel etc. Escalate some more. Profit. Everything has been simplified but if you have a bit of intelligence and you've read the bible you should be able to figure it out.
 

foreverAFC

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put a ziploc bag between the couch cushions and practice on that
 

Mike32ct

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It's normal to feel sad/sentimental at the end of high school. I was valedictorian and prom king, and I still cried when it was all over lol.

I don't think there is a fast way to lose your virginity. Nor do I think you should put that kind of pressure on yourself.

Focus on YOU. Work out, have cool hobbies, socialize, etc. Put yourself in a position to meet and attract females.

Start thinking about your summer plans too. You have to look ahead.

But don't pressure yourself to score in the next two days. Certainly go to any and ALL graduation parties, classmate get-togethers, etc. Flirt with any girls you want because you might not see them again. Have fun with your buddies.

But don't get too hung up on scoring with chicks. I mean it's possible to hook up at one of the parties, but don't dwell on it. Having a good time is more important.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LearningSlowly

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I'm curious, what's stopping you?

Do you go on first dates? Do you kiss on the first date? Do you look to get clothes off and hook up?

Where is the line that you are struggling to cross?

You will have to go on a few first dates or go to a few parties (with good logistics) to get laid. If you are not achieving those basics, you gotta step up or go buy a hooker.

If you really want to lose your virginity at a party, get drunk and lower your standards. If you want to deserve a good girl, make yourself into a good guy.
 

sid_company33

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A true Don Juan doesn't care about losing his virginity for he knows however bad the circumstances get, he is gonna prevail at the end. Quoting pook....

"As you think, you shall become!"

A desperate kid or a man with integrity? What you think of yourself is your choice.
 
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