"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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18 Trying to lose my virginity, FAST

grimsavage

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Aright so im 18 and still a virgin :/ ive been with girls before but when it comes to getting intimate and stuff i just dont know how :((. background info- im done with high school in legit 2 days and it depresses me so much one cuz i wont see all my friends and **** anymore and 2 i wont be around so many females everyday. Now I say i want to lose it fast but not to anyone well maybe anyone but i have my standards you know. Can you guys help me out i can talk to girls ok i guess im more of the stupid up front type so ill say anything neccesary to reach my goal if any of you guys could like walk me thru it it'd be hella appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JoeMarron

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Read the DJ bible. Go talk to females. If they're friendly towards you ask them out. On the date be sexual. If she responds well to it then get her alone i.e. your place, her place, hotel etc. Escalate some more. Profit. Everything has been simplified but if you have a bit of intelligence and you've read the bible you should be able to figure it out.
 

foreverAFC

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put a ziploc bag between the couch cushions and practice on that
 

Mike32ct

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It's normal to feel sad/sentimental at the end of high school. I was valedictorian and prom king, and I still cried when it was all over lol.

I don't think there is a fast way to lose your virginity. Nor do I think you should put that kind of pressure on yourself.

Focus on YOU. Work out, have cool hobbies, socialize, etc. Put yourself in a position to meet and attract females.

Start thinking about your summer plans too. You have to look ahead.

But don't pressure yourself to score in the next two days. Certainly go to any and ALL graduation parties, classmate get-togethers, etc. Flirt with any girls you want because you might not see them again. Have fun with your buddies.

But don't get too hung up on scoring with chicks. I mean it's possible to hook up at one of the parties, but don't dwell on it. Having a good time is more important.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LearningSlowly

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I'm curious, what's stopping you?

Do you go on first dates? Do you kiss on the first date? Do you look to get clothes off and hook up?

Where is the line that you are struggling to cross?

You will have to go on a few first dates or go to a few parties (with good logistics) to get laid. If you are not achieving those basics, you gotta step up or go buy a hooker.

If you really want to lose your virginity at a party, get drunk and lower your standards. If you want to deserve a good girl, make yourself into a good guy.
 

sid_company33

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A true Don Juan doesn't care about losing his virginity for he knows however bad the circumstances get, he is gonna prevail at the end. Quoting pook....

"As you think, you shall become!"

A desperate kid or a man with integrity? What you think of yourself is your choice.
 
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