"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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18+ places (nightclubs, whatever) in LA/OC area or driving distance away

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I've been looking for good 18+ places (I'm 20 in July) to go sarging in the LA or Orange County area - or anywhere within driving distance. I'm sure there must be a lot but I'm having trouble finding them.

I went to one club I found on sunday which was pretty cool, but I wish I had the selection of bars and clubs that the 21+ people have.

Could anyone post a list of places they know of that are 18+? I'm not talking about normal places here, like bookstores or coffee shops.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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