"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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17 years, Fun places?

FawTMaN

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Hey guys,
Being a minor and all, I'm looking for some new places/activities to just chill alone/with buddies. I'm not old enough for clubs yet I don't wanna go to those little parks. If it helps, I live in Montreal.

Just looking for some input on some good and fun stuff you guys do. The movies and the arcades just became too boring.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dj_jazzybrad

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Malls are cool but I tend to stay away from them. I reccomend movies with friends. I live in a small town and its the only thing to do. But me and buds go longboarding a lot, plenty of hills to bomb around where I live. It doesnt matter where you hang out as long as you have that social interaction.

As for places to take a girl... I took a girl to the shooting range with me yesterday, and she loved it. Just brought some .22s and a .17hmr, nothing big, she had a blast.
 

lalahaha

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montreal canada? i dunno i think you guys should have ice skating rinks there right :D, you can also just hang out at someone's house
 

MisterMcGee

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mall, house, party, city (subway there), a plaza, etc

chilling with friends isn't like dating a girl, it doesn't need to be anything near 'special' or whatever. Just chill.
 
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