"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sbgm

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Hello, this is a tricky question and I hope we'll get a little discussion going here hehe.

So - last weekend I was at a party at a friends house. It was lame, so I decided I should have some fun with some young girls there. (I'm 19 and she was 17) so I made out with this 17yo girl. (6/10 (face does it)) Turns out she had a boyfriend but we made out like 3 times. So she's been msg me on FB all day and I know I could bang her easily.

The thing is, she is psychologically mature, acts like 17, she has a nice face, but her body - like a 12yo! (That was the only reason I didn't b*ngd her)

Should I go for her? it would feel pretty weird if I did...
What should you guys do? Smuggle hormonic pills in her food? xD
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your call man. If you feel weird or uncomfortable about it, just next her. Theres millions upon millions of more teenagers out there.
 

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Yes of course.. I would just like to know what you should have done in my place hehe would you do it?
 

ENIGMA16

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I'd never mess with a 17 year old. There's way too many attractive women that are legal out there to risk your life getting your nuts off once or a few times.
 

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15yo is legal in sweden (A)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting Q.. Probably not, I just dont think I'd enjoy it if she really did look that much younger. It'd be creepy. :|
 
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