"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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15 Year Old Girl Kicked and Stomped in the Head

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Saw this on the news last night and felt bad for the girl. One thing I've learned is never mess with kids who have lost a loved one. When I was growing up I've seen a few kids get jumped for school yard taunting by surviving family members of a deceased relative.


Not saying what he did was right or justified and I hope this kids does get tried as an adult.

http://www.justnews.com/news/22868624/detail.html
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did they remove the part about her taunting him about his deceased brother?

I see it mentioned in the comments but not in the article.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Did they remove the part about her taunting him about his deceased brother?

I see it mentioned in the comments but not in the article.
I read the whole thing and didn't see any clear motive for the beating. Why would they remove that? (Except to make this whole thing look senseless, which crime almost never is.)

Actually, I'm surprised in the comments no one has asked for a clear motive. The best the story offers is that "they exchanged txt messages" and then the beating happened. But that's not enough for a motive.

I'm glad you know why this happened otherwise I'd be in the dark. God, reporters suck at their jobs.
 

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Luthor Rex said:
. God, reporters suck at their jobs.
Maybe. If you consider a reporters job to convey facts devoid of any implied commentary, irrespective of the financial benefit of the particular news organization, then your statement is correct.

On the other hand, it makes a better "story" to have some girl brutally beaten without any apparent motive, and be in the hospital hanging on for dear life, and to paint the assailant as some psycho. It pulls the heart strings, and gets more comments, views, and ad clicks.

If they highlighted any thing the girl did (not that anything deserves a coma inducing beating) it would make the situation seem less like a senseless tragedy, and more like your every day run of the mill violence.

Not that I condone everyday run of the mill violence, it just seems that recently people are getting more and more de sensitized to it, so anything a "reporter" can do (e.g. leave out vital info) to make the "story" seem more compelling, the better.

And in this particular case, they can always claim they left out that bit of info out of respect for the victim.

All that being said, I hope the two who did this (the kid and the 13 y/o) get what's coming to them (whatever that may be), and the girl fully recovers.
 

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I'd need to know the other half of what happened to fairly comment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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