"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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15 Year Old Girl Kicked and Stomped in the Head

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Saw this on the news last night and felt bad for the girl. One thing I've learned is never mess with kids who have lost a loved one. When I was growing up I've seen a few kids get jumped for school yard taunting by surviving family members of a deceased relative.


Not saying what he did was right or justified and I hope this kids does get tried as an adult.

http://www.justnews.com/news/22868624/detail.html
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did they remove the part about her taunting him about his deceased brother?

I see it mentioned in the comments but not in the article.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Did they remove the part about her taunting him about his deceased brother?

I see it mentioned in the comments but not in the article.
I read the whole thing and didn't see any clear motive for the beating. Why would they remove that? (Except to make this whole thing look senseless, which crime almost never is.)

Actually, I'm surprised in the comments no one has asked for a clear motive. The best the story offers is that "they exchanged txt messages" and then the beating happened. But that's not enough for a motive.

I'm glad you know why this happened otherwise I'd be in the dark. God, reporters suck at their jobs.
 

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Luthor Rex said:
. God, reporters suck at their jobs.
Maybe. If you consider a reporters job to convey facts devoid of any implied commentary, irrespective of the financial benefit of the particular news organization, then your statement is correct.

On the other hand, it makes a better "story" to have some girl brutally beaten without any apparent motive, and be in the hospital hanging on for dear life, and to paint the assailant as some psycho. It pulls the heart strings, and gets more comments, views, and ad clicks.

If they highlighted any thing the girl did (not that anything deserves a coma inducing beating) it would make the situation seem less like a senseless tragedy, and more like your every day run of the mill violence.

Not that I condone everyday run of the mill violence, it just seems that recently people are getting more and more de sensitized to it, so anything a "reporter" can do (e.g. leave out vital info) to make the "story" seem more compelling, the better.

And in this particular case, they can always claim they left out that bit of info out of respect for the victim.

All that being said, I hope the two who did this (the kid and the 13 y/o) get what's coming to them (whatever that may be), and the girl fully recovers.
 

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I'd need to know the other half of what happened to fairly comment.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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