"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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15 ways we can put an end to the dishonest dating culture

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VladPatton

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LOL mmhmm yeah....do all those things and bıtches won't even give you the time of day. Enter, SoSuave.
 

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I think that list is pretty much ridiculous.

But I also think it depends a lot on the age of the people involved. That list is clearly meant for younger people and as such it's BAD advice.

For older folks like myself I believe the truth is somewhere between the things on that list and the other extreme that much of the PUA community espouses...but leaning more toward the "game" side of things than the fluffy bull**** listed there.

In other words, don't take anything as gospel and improvise according to the situation.
 

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The number one thing you learn in red pill culture is to NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM WOMEN. That list was written by a woman so...yeah...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you like someone, don’t pretend you don’t.

And bang goes the intimate mystery.

Going to the movies with someone doesn’t mean you’re signing a marriage license.

This is true. But going to the movies does mean you will sit next to someone for two hours not talking to them, probably watching some other (much hotter) couple making out/f*cking, while you don't make out/f*ck.

Movie dates are possibly the worst dates.

We have all had relationships that failed. If you use those problems to justify your twisted actions in every future romantic encounter, you will waste many potentially successful relationships.

Actually reasonably sound advice.

No one deserves anything less than your utmost respect.

Not technically true. Those who grant utmost respect deserve utmost respect.

If you know that you are dragging someone along for selfish reasons, put yourself in his or her shoes and do the decent thing. Just be honest.

Again, not bad advice here. More hassle than it's worth.
 
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