"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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15 pounds in 2 months, booya

Borknagar

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Just graduated from college, got lazy so didn't make it to the gym so much, in fact rarely, plus back into the habit of eating junk food again, THANK GOODNESS all I gained was about 20-25 pounds. I am 6'2 225(probably add about 2-3 pounds cause its on the warehouse scale at work, and I wear steal toe boots, it is exact weight, not 5lb increments like most warehouse scales so 222 - 223lb)

I'm kinda surprised though cause I eat cookies a couple times a week, and have gas station hit dogs a few times a week too. However aside from that I don't eat much, something to settle my stomach before the gym, then I do 40 minutes of weights and 30 minutes of the stair master. I do that twice a week and 40 minutes of stairmaster twice a week. I'm changing it to all 4 days weights and stairmaster 40 on weights 30 on stairmaster.

Just got me two 5 pounds cans of protein as well, I did take protein after weights, but am gonna start doing it both pre and post. I'm also gonna cut out the damn gas station hot dogs and **** too. I'll post results.

Keep in mind I'm also a bigger build anyway, so my weight isn't bad.

What ya'll think? Don't wanna get fat again, I was 300lb from 2000-2009, and graduated high school in 98 at about 250.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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