"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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14 years old dawg

heteropedro

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Hey sup. I was wondering if anyone here could set up a lil routine I could do for my arms and possible any other upper body part that i could do at home with 2 dumbells? I dotn have the dumbells yet cause I dunno what weight to get. So can you guys help me out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very unspecific question, seeing as how none of us know anything about you or your workout history, health level, etc.

You would be better off going to a gym and speaking with a personal trainer. Perhaps the YMCA.

If you're serious about the dumbbells, realize now that they alone will not accomplish the results you're probably looking for. You'd be better off just doing your 30 mins of cardio then push ups and power cleans.
 

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Nice and simple dude. Learn technique. Don't be too concerned with weight. Buy a basic set (barbell and DBs) for the home, nothing wrong with that. I started with an old set of Weider weights and bench. Came with some good posters on what the exercises were and how to perform them. Press ups are good. Dips with feet on a chair and hands on a slightly lower bench. Pull-ups on anything you can find. I used to use the branch of a tree outside our house. Try and get a friend to do stuff with you for safety and motivation. Even better, a slightly older guy who knows what he is doing.

If you can find a good instructor at a gym (and most are truly woeful in my view) who is willing to help you all well and good but many gyms won't allow one so young to join up.

Get to it you dawg!!
 

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Also, have you considered signing up for the JV football team at your school? Usually they do weight training after classes are done...
 
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