"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1369 Dates=marriage

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IF TWO PEOPLE WHO MET ONLINE WANT TO GET MARRIED IT REQUIRES GOING ON ALMOST *1400 DATES..........Bad Boy Danny Bonaducci met his ex-wife and married her on the same night.

She claimed she was saving herself 'til marriage.........so he proposed and they got married that same night. So you tell me which guy would you rather be........the 1400 date nice guy.......or the bad boy?

*stats according to match.com research.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phuck that...I wouldn't do either.
 
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I wouldnt trust those stats. Many of todays stats are made up out of thin air just to make a company look better.

Its called advertising.

Did he meet his ex-wife on match.com? If he did, then match.com is shooting them selfs in the foot, by saying: "You will find the love of your life on Match.com, but she will be your ex-wife".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BS how many YEARS would you have to date to be able to have the time? Who dates that long?
 
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I think those stats are the amount of dates someone goes on before they get married in total, not just with that one person. And if that's the case it might make some sense. But yeah, they are bs a bit.
 
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WELL............it equates to about 4 years and that is basically dead on.

Lots or people date 4 years then get married...........

ONLY A FOOL would marry someone in less time..........

The stat is based upon when two compatible people who met online (clock started) to when they got married (clock stopped) on average it took aprox 1369 dates.

I did the math........thats about 5 dates per week for a few years........

They claim 12% of all marriages are attributed to match, E-harmony is just over 3%, POF claims its responsible for 180000 so far.
 
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COD said:
I did the math........thats about 5 dates per week for a few years........
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who goes on 5 dates a week? I only go on 2, maybe 3 a week since I have a job/life outside of the girl I'm seeing.
 
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sucks to be you then
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Holy crap! 1369 dates!

Meh, I won't go through that. I don't think I have the patience nor need to do so.
 
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1400 dates * no telling how much money you spend each time on gas, food, entertainment. Funk that! Unless every single one of those dates is a free walk in the park and spread out of more like 10 years. lol
 
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